This is something that bugs me because its so simple but I always feel like if I don't have a creative first message then the whole thing is pointless. She won't respond and then I feel stupid for ever messaging her. There is a girl that I don't ever remember meeting but she lives close by and we follow each other on Instagram and that's about as far as the relationship goes. I think she's really cute and seems funny and goofy, similar to me. She likes almost all of my posts, but I don't know what to say to her. I have gone through a lot of rejection for girls and it makes it hard to be outgoing to other girls.
Most Helpful Girl
It's pretty simple. Start with "hi" and add, "I think you're pretty cool and would like to know more about you"0
Most Helpful Guy
Just do it. Worst case scenario is she doesn't message back and you're embarrassed for a few days maybe. Best case is she actually responds and you get self confidence and a chance to get closer to her.0