My friends were teasing me that I'm the blame for my dog getting fat. I mean we used to take her for walks but she tore up her color and we used to have a leash for her. My friend was like to my pup, "Aww poor Lena. Was Dana mean to you. Don't snap at me, get angry at Dana, she's the one that don't do it." My sister was like, "Why don't you ever take her for walks?" I told them that I did and we used to. Then my friend said, "Well buy her another one! So she won't be cooped up! Lena is Dana being mean to you?" Then they all laugh. I told my sister they were joking. He said, "No I am so not. Lena is squealing on you! Hahaha." I know they were just kidding but afterwards, I get upset and angry. It's been like that since I was a kid. EVERYONE use to pick on me A LOT. I got angry and the kids would pick on me some more because they loved making me angry. I've gotten better at accepting jokes but I always feel guilty.
Then my my friend asked me what I wanted to do Friday night. Then she said, "Hey! Don't be looking at your dad! You're a grown *** woman. You do what you want. You don't need your parents permission anymore!" I have Asperger Syndrome and people need to be careful what they say to me. They do but what is wrong with me?
- Stop being so sensitive! They're just kidding with you.Vote A
- Well start taking your dog for a walk. She is YOUR responsibility for her getting fat. Your sister and friends has a point.Vote B
- They need to chill outVote C
- Stop being such a baby!Vote D
Most Helpful Guy
People need to be more aware of things they say, it's ok to joke around from tine to time but it really isn't needed round the clock. As for the dog thing I wouldn't worry too much about it, it's your dog and the animal loves you regardless of being overweight or fit.1
Most Helpful Girl
They seem to be very sarcastic people and they are just joking around with you. Just laugh and agree. If you fight their comments it'll only turn into an argument. Just say "yeah yeah yeah I will when I can don't worry".
Keep it simple!!! Never go on about something that makes you upset or uncomfortable!! Change the topic like "Oh, by the way, this weekend.. I heard there's a party.. wanna go? I just gotta figure out whose hosting it." If they ask "who'd you hear it from?" Just say "walking in the halls. I'll find out more details" So now Your dog is off their minds1