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I am asexual. I think the experience is pretty different, just like it is for other sexualites. I know as a guy I really struggled with my masculinity before I found out about asexuality, I could (and can) masturbate but could not think of either hetero or gay sex and climax. I found women pretty but not sexy, and found guys neither. It felt like I was straight by default, but broken.
I think girls have a tougher time being out about it though. People rarely press me about it in a creepy, rapey way. many of them are not so lucky. I don't think they are taken as seriously about it either, because women are considered "less sexual". I think guys are assumed to be lying about it more often than not being taken seriously.1