I have a problem at work, ALL men working with me are quite rude to me.
For example :
- they won't talk with me, if I start the conversation they sometimes just ignore me
- sometimes they won't even reply "HI" to me
- they generally NEVER come to me, never start talking to me , and keep avoiding me
I wonder if it could be because they think I am ugly?
But I think i look quite normal, and I see they make friendship with other girls at work that are really average or not pretty! I also try to be very friendly and generally nice.
So what could be the problem? Because I think it's because I am ugly,, (but in the mirror i look quite pretty so i don't understand) , could it be the reason or what? do men avoid and are rude to ugly girls? is this the problem?
Please advice me something
Guys, Why are men rude to me?
What Guys Said 2
That sounds really weird. Something must be missing from the picture. Something you missed perhaps?
Guys generally don't freeze people out like this. Even if they didn't find you attractive they would still talk to you. It takes a lot to look ugly to guys. Average is attractive, ugly is boring but okay, attractive is model.
If I (not realistic, but yeah) didn't at all talk to a girl, it would have to be because of the vibes she gave off, like she was hostile, or extremely shy or something. Basically sending the signal "don't talk to me". If she looked sort of angry or up tight, even though she really wasn't. Something like that.
Do you have insight into what kind of vibe you give off? How have people described you before? Do girls do anything similar? And what kind of guys are they? -confident, shy, nice, nerds?
From what you describe you seem polite and... normal.1
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You could be ugly. Maybe there pissed off with you because your a woman0
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