I've just been scrolling through GaG and noticed this a lot. Every girl will say that height is a preference, and it's ok to have preferences. But as soon as a guy says he prefers girls with a low number, he gets called judgmental and insecure. Why the hypocrisy?
Most Helpful Girl
Dude, you can have whatever preferences you want. You can reject girls who can't flare their nostrils wide enough, for all we care.
But... it's cute that you think you're actually going to KNOW "a girl's number of partners".
It's even cuter when boys use these made-up rules, like "double her number and add 5 1/2" or whatever tf... and ALSO have a supposed preference based on the number!
Lmao smh... yeah, basically just make up a number out of a blue sky, and then have a "preference" based on it. Real winner, there. 🙄
Also -- By having this sort of "preference", you're basically admitting that you can't read people well enough to determine their character... and so you have to resort to these "formulas".
I mean -- Even if you DO think that having N number of partners shows some sort of character trait (which is **highly** debatable)... YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO READ THOSE CHARACTER TRAITS ALREADY, just through yr everyday actions with yr woman.
In other words: Unless you are a complete social retard, her "number" won't -- and can't -- tell you anything you wouldn't already know from 15 minutes of interaction with her.15
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Most Helpful Guy
First reason. No one cares if you prefer women with specific numbers of sexual encounters. It's when you interject some moral values into it that people consider you an insecure dick. The problem is course, if it's not because you're insecure then why?
Second reason. It's a difference that is solely dependent upon your information. One look at a tall guy and you know he's not short and one look at a short guy tells you he's not tall. Looking at a girl with or without experience, they look the same, so the two *preferences* are not equal.
They are not preferences based on attraction, but or intellectual decisions. Physical attraction is based on uncontrollable basic biological programming. Intellectual decisions are based on indoctrination or feelings of inferiority that can be overcome.1