I believe that he is not looking for drugs. I believe he is going through your draws because he feels that your engaging in sexual activities and is looking for condoms and suspicious stuff he knows you never had before. Either way, he has no business being in your room looking through your stuff when it doesn't warrant it. If this continues and you don't confront him about it, then its time to move out.
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Personally, i think that's not right at all. That's your room, your own personal space. Everyone needs their own privacy at home.
When I lived at home, my mother wouldn't even go through my drawers.. let alone my father. Both my parents respected my privacy.
They do that. Your mom might be looking through your shit too.
I used to go through my parents drawers when they weren't home.
Funny how few people admit to that LOL.
Yes, that is not right for him to go through your drawers that's your
personal property well my mother went through my drawer when she
found out I was keeping a article of obituary of a classmate like how
cruel can one be to take a obituary of a someone i think parents need
to stop and think and ask questions before taking items from our drawers
that belong to us.
He sounds comtroling/overprotective. He maybe thinks you're doing weird stuff and wants to check if you have drugs or something in your drawers.
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That's dysfunctional. I wonder what he was up to at your age that he feels so suspicious and feels compelled to snoop and invade your privacy.
No, that's horrible. Can you get something with a lock? Do you have any friends you trust and could leave stuff with? If you move out you should totally take some of your dad's stuff before you go.
It's not cool that he does that, you need to have your own space and privacy.
Also, LOL that your embarrassed by your dad seeing your underwear.That's definitely not right for him to go through your stuff, what does he expect Trondheim anyway
It's not normal especially that you don't give him subconscious reason to look in your privacy. My father never did that.
thats not ok. jesus christ what an invasion of privacy.
That sounds a little strange, after you wear them you should send them to me and I will send you the money to buy new ones,. Oh, only if you don't wash them of course.
Mine sent me 500 miles away took my money, went through every thing I owned and recovered God knows what from the electronics that weren't password protected (so mainly my computers).
It is very common for parents to go through their kid's stuff. Even for kids to go through their parent's stuff when nobody else is home.
I think I am the only one I know who doesn't do that.unless you've been in trouble before with drugs or alcohol then I don't see why else he would be looking through your things
If you dont like it... move out.
No, it isn't normal. That's invading your privacy.
He should respect your privacy. Tell your mum.
confront him
his house, his right.
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