Long story short: fell very hard for a guy I met abroad, we both really liked each other. We slept together and it became weird. His issue was that I wasn't coming back to his city anytime soon (and he kinda has emotional issues) so he didn't want anything to happen, makes sense. I'm heartbroken but understanding.
My mom said it if it's meant to be, the world will find a way for me to get back to his city.
Fast forward 6 months, I'm offered a job in his city (haven't decided if I'll take it, have other options).
Signs or coincedence?
ps. This is a guy I've felt the strongest feelings ever in my life. We really liked each other but now he won't answer my messages, partly because he's forgets as he does with everyone and partly, I think, he thinks we'll never see each other again. I haven't told him and I don't know if I wanna because we ended on a weird note and I don't know if he still likes me and I don't want to impose myself on him or make him feel weird
I had gotten over him after a few months back in the states but immediately once I did, this job offer came and the feelings flooded back
Most Helpful Guy
It's just a coincidence, universe doesn't send signs. You know, last year I met a girl one day, in the next day I accidentaly met her in a library and I had the most pleasant conversation with a woman last year, 4 days later I met her again by chance and we didn't stop talking anymore. I wanted to be with her after some months, but... she didn't want the same.
So, universe doesn't send signs. Coincidences can lead you to think that something is meant to be, but nothing is actually meant to be.2
Most Helpful Girl
It could be... but get to know him more. Like see if your beliefs and ideals match. Feelings can be awesome but if you want a relationship then I think you should get to know him more just to be sure.1