if the ex still has feelings for him/her and wants/asks to get back together?
how would you feel if he/she kept talking to them regardless of you constantly asking them not to
and why would he/she be so keen on talking to that ex?
- yes it's unfairVote A
- no its fairVote B
Most Helpful Guy
If I'm getting really serious with someone then I don't want any ex's with old feelings getting in the mix and complicating things. You said SO which means you're officially boyfriend and girlfriend, (which used to mean commitment but nowadays I guess not) which means there shouldn't be someone in the background competing for their feelings and trying to take them away from you. Wtf? I would make her erase that person and get serious or I'd drop her.3
Most Helpful Girl
If they're talking as friends, I would be ok with that but if she was asking to get back together? I would feel heartbroken because I will get scared but I will also talk to him.
As for your other question I kept talking to my ex for awhile and my boyfriend knew and as soon he acted like he wanted me back, I stopped talking to him, changed my number when I bought a new phone and I even made another Facebook account using my middle name only because he might use his friends account to talk to me.
Some people just feel bad especially if it was mutual and they were friends before.0