As in, you might have liked (even if it's a little) that person at the time, but looking back you realize it was not that important
Most Helpful Guy
I still have a crush on a girl from highschool. Met her in 10th grade, and it's been 2 years since we graduated.
Depends on the person. I crush on a lot of girls but they fade quickly... not her though.
She stays on my mind for some reason. I dream about her a lot0
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The guys I've liked in high school were very forgettable for me. I was thinking about this (I'm in college now) and I was like "Why did I like any of the guys in high school?" and I came to the conclusion because they were guys that talked to me a decent amount and I thought they were interesting and therefore, I liked them. Except, I really thought about it, and I mean, I did talk to all of them, but I didn't really KNOW them and it was pretty stupid to like someone who I didn't actually know on any intimate level.
I think because of my revelation, I haven't like anyone in college. I might have kind of like one guy my freshmen year, but again, it was a silly crush and originally I wasn't too fond of him to begin with because he was kind of an a** to me in the beginning and then after that, I didn't meet any guys much and the ones I did, I learned that I didn't really have any interest in them because of my revelation.
I think crushes in university are only big if you actually pursue it.0