Okay so one night I didn't feel like pumping my own gas so I gave my boyfriend my card to do it for me. He already knew my pin code because of this. So, later that night I had realized he hadn't given it back to me so I asked him if he had it and he said no why would he (he's a little dumb so I knew he wasn't lying about this). So I told him look for it anyways and he said okay I will. So about 2 days later he finally looked for it and he found it but never told me. Once he found it, he proceeded to use it and spent/took about 1400 dollars from it. I only had about 900 on it so he took the rest out of my savings. He went shopping, took out withdrawals, everything. Mind you I'm an 18 year college student who has no job and he knows this. He's 21, not a student and has 2 jobs. Also I have to say I've never done anything to make him hate me or dislike me or have a reason for doing this to me. I treat him good, and I do everything he asks of me so he clearly must have no empathy to be able to do this to me and act like everything is fine. I called the bank so I will get all of my money back but I haven't confronted him yet. So basically, I'm asking for your thoughts on this/ what I should do about him
Thoughts on my boyfriend stealing over a thousand dollars from me?
What Guys Said 12
You need to file police report against him for taking money out of your banking account. I could never do that to any girl or woman. I hope things get better for you i just think you can do better.4
I wouldn't want to have anything else to do with the guy. What he did was theft and unauthorized use of a credit card. Those are crimes. You could report those crimes to the local police, and I wouldn't blame you if you did.2
He abused your trust. Report him.1
He's a piece if shit that's why he did it.1
Did he say sowwy?0
He's a thief and you should get away fast, and call the cops the judge will surely throw the book at him.1
Why are u still with him1
Get the cops involved.0
Prosecute him. File charges. Let the police break the news to him :) A guy who steals isn't worth having around.4
What Girls Said 12
Tell him that he's a damn thief, he's lucky you didn't take him to court, and break up with him.4
Don't say anything to him, he might get violent. Instead call the police when he's home and wait till they knock on the door and lock his ass up. Save all proof3
That is totally unacceptable. It is like cheating but in a different way. Guys are around women all the time and they are expected not to go for them if they have a girlfriend. Sure it would be easy to but it is totally immoral. Same thing with money. When you have a boyfriend that you trust there are valuables and money in your home that shouldn't have to be hidden or stored away when he comes over. He betrayed your trust by stealing your money. This is so wrong. Break up with him and call the police.1
Definitely definitely definitely get the police involved. The cameras from the banks will show him taking the money and then you decide whether or not you want to press charges. If you don't, the police will anyways. If it were me, I wouldn't give it a second though, but I would bring it up to him, and break up with him. If he gave you an excuse such as... "I didn't do it" you could tell him that you already have proof and that the police are involved/getting involved. That's disgusting behavior from him, and I'm very very sorry that happened to you, but please also don't give out your pin number. To anyone. This includes your S/O.1
Hm, FUCK HIM! I would be on the phone with the cops in about 2 seconds. This is grand theft it's not like he took $20 over a thousand is a BIG PROBLEM!!!1
Um... sue? The fuck?1
He would be my ex and you should call the cops on him.1
Confront him then leave his thieving ass.0
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