Are big boobs a turn off?

i get the feeling that smaller boobs win here, like no guy prefers big boobs. I feel kinda insecure i always see the "big boobs are saggy" "small boobs are better" etc. i mean not every pair of big boobs is saggy and they can look good too? I feel like only real "fuckboys" are into big boobs. I sometimes get weird comments about my boobs, not all of them are about the size but it feels like i get bullied because of the attention they get "your bra is showing through your shirt" "i bet they're saggy" "showing them on purpose" i mean wtf i know loads of girls that show cleavage and wear a see through shirt, the only difference is their small boobs? What's going on? Boobs are boobs at the end of the day they're balls of fat.
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We're talking about 85 E here, european size
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  • Wow I got the complete opposite experience! Big boobs are praised and put a on a pedestal in the western society, while small boobs get laughed at and ridiculed - always the last choice. It's not for nothing that VS sells $50 bombshell bras (=only girls with big boobs are "bombshells") that _enlarges_your cup by 2 sizes (we have yet to see any minimizer bra named "bombshell" and advertised as sexy). Women with smaller boobs aren't as desirable as the ladies with the larger ones in our society, that's just how it is, and if you get tired of hearing guys trying to send some comfort to smaller chested girls by pretending to "prefer" smaller boobs and counting all the "positives" about them - you should only know what it feels like to have boobs in a size where the positives aren't obvious (as they are with big boobs) and has to be counted as if you're trying to be nice about someone's bad haircut. "Ehr.. maybe they'll grow?"

    As for guys preferences I can't hear the end of how everyone adores big boobs, brags about their girlfriends' large busts while cracking jokes about some girl with smaller boobs. For example; my boyfriend's male co-worker laughed at him when he told him that his girlfriend (me) doesn't have big tits (why he felt the need to tell me about that conversation idk). Yay for being a reason for my boyfriend to be laughed at :( Sorry for the rant, just wish women with big tits would realize how lucky they are to have been born with a trait seen as positive and desirable. No one really cares if your boobs sag, if they show through the shirt or if you show cleavage - as long as they're big. End of story :)

    • Are you small boobs girl? Maybe that's why you feel that people like big boobs... While that's not true at all

  • Who told you guys don't like big boobs? First off even with gravity at play big doesn't have to mean saggy it's just when they're not saggy people want to swear they're fake like.. Nooo.. I've had these since I was 15 anyway if anyone has a comment about your breast check them and check them hard "First the fuck off no one bet you shit I bet you're jealous because even if you got implants nothing is fixing that face secondly why are you so concerned about what's under my shirt why are you always looking at my tits sorry I don't want you to suck them so stop sucking dick"

  • I'm not a guy but have a boyfriend and have had a lot of guy friends over the years. Most of them don't care. Yes, big boobs catch their attention because they are big. Its like a sign, if there is a small sign advertising a clothing store and a big sign advertising fast food, more people are gonna notice the big fast food sign. As long as they are natural, they are totally fine. Most guys don't care, the just like boobs.

    • You got it mostly right until you said "as long as they're natural". Natural or implants is totally irrelevant.

    • @guylow Fake tits are the best kind. Let humans design their bodies, not nature!

  • I feel thankful for my large boobs. It's been my experience that I get a lot of positive comments about them and I think that men in general like boobs. So most men are great with big boobs. There are some that like small, but in general I have always thought it was the other way around.

Most Helpful Guys

  • HELL nah. Big boobs are the best. I haven't run into a set of big boobs that I didn't like, and I've seen some pretty big ones. They are beautiful, and add that femme charm to a woman. They are also super soft and so damn fun to play with. Literally, tits rock.

    • I agree. They are sexy as hell and are just more fun. What can be done with small boobs, nothing at all.

  • I can't accept boobs smaller than C cup. I prefer D cup. Big boobs catch men's attention, but you don't have to wear a see through shirt. You can play a little low key.

    • It wasn't my intention it was see through in the sunlight

    • Ok. I may stick my eyes into them but I would not say anything about them. It looks beautiful. Lol

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  • Oh come on
    Most girls want big boobs
    And most of the guys I know love them
    (PS I have the exact same bra size as you) 😃

  • Sounds like you're wanting recognition for having big nice boobs since it's common knowledge plenty of men like big boobs

    • I could see that. It's also possible that her face does not compliment her boobs, and as a man I can tell you that that makes all the difference. If you gotta nice face (even at least decent) with great tits, I will slobber for you. Below average face, then I would agree that her tits end up as just sacks of fat (which I shudder even saying because I have the utmost respect for the benevolent breasts of my beautiful female counterparts).

    • @FroggyDoggy96 meh boobs are okay I guess. Kinda weird guys obsess over them consideratng what they're meant for lol

    • "Meant for"? You know that guys are hardwired to be attracted to tits because they are a sign of sexual maturity, fertility, and ability to nurture the guy's children right? It's completely within reason for a guy to obsess over them, especially if they are larger and therefore emphasize all those genetic advantages that I previously mentioned.

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  • Big boobs? Guys love them. Small boobs? Guys love them.

  • No to humongous boobs. No to tiny boobs too.

  • How dare you! They are not balls of fat, they are a gift from the lord our god.

  • What size are you talking about?

    • 85 E european size

    • Looks like that 38dd us unless I made a mistake. My ex was around that size, I loved them, actually sort of miss them now lol

  • For some it's (when they're very big and saggy) but for majority it's not

    • True. The smaller the better

    • @Iamsososobored Nope, just the opposite!

  • Depends on how big. For me medium is ideal, but big is better than flat.

    • 85 E european size

  • HUGE tits can be a turn-off. Anything bigger than DD (American) is too big for me. MAYBE DDD.

  • Big saggy are better

  • Maybe in an alternate universe.

  • There is a point where big boobs are too big yes

  • Not at all

  • Big boobs are sexy. The only reason you feel like only fuck boys like big boobs is because it takes a brash person to be so upfront about it

  • Boobs are awesome no matter the size :D

  • It's about shape, not size so much.

  • Yes guys like big boobs and nope they aren't a turn off.

  • Yes. Small is so much better.

  • Big boobs are more attractive and more feminine they also that she would have an easier time feeding a baby majority of the guys that say they like small boob's are because no girl with big boob's is interested in them

  • What planet are you living on?

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