I feel like I can't say anything that's different from what he wants. For example, we are planning a summer vacation and he said that he wanted to go to Florida. All I said was that Florida would be really hot and humid during the summer. And we got into a huge argument over that.
He twisted what I said into something completely different. He said that I didn't care about all his efforts in planning his vacation, that I didn't respect his opinion or ideas. All I said was Florida is hot in the summer. That's a fact. I never said I wouldn't go or that it was a stupid idea. Just that it was hot.
I feel like any other couple wouldn't get into a fight over something like this. I don't even want to see or hang out with him anymore because he ruins my day. He makes me feel bad about nothing.
I mean, did I say something wrong? I have hundreds of these examples and it's getting harder and harder to put up with.
And yea, I have sat him down to talk to him multiple times. He will either tell me I made it up or that he's prefectly fine and it's me.
I always end up apologizing just so I don't have to be in a fight anymore and I feel like he's get pleasure or amusement or something in seeing me apologize and beg for forgiveness.
Is this something that he can change or should I just leave because I can't take it anymore.
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