Why do some guys/girls feel comfortable groping strangers?

[estoydorado1]

I've just experienced and seen so many situations where a guy or girl would be attracted/intrigued by a stranger and feel entitled to put their hands on other people. This could include hair, face, chest/breast, butt, and in extreme cases, the crotch. First off I don't know where your hands have been and for all you know I could have lice, filth on my clothes, a skin infection, etc. (I'm very clean by the way but you get my point)..

For those of you who do this, why do you do it?

I'm okay with groping strangers/being groped

I don't grope strangers/I don't want strangers grabbing me

[Nmalinova]

I hate gropes... every time a stranger gropes I turn around and tell him quite loudly that he should mind his own business and that it's not ok to grope strangers, usually works well because he WILL feel embarrassed because people of close proximity will hear what a psycho he is :)

But it is not ok at all! I mean are we wearing a sign saying: please grope me stranger? >.<

[Anonymous]

I hate these entitled gropers and molesters.. infuriates me they even exist... I'd be out clubbing and my ass would get gropped and slapped or someone tries to pull you and I had to elbow them each and every time or slap their faces, I'm not afraid to stand up for myself if you overstep your boundaries...

[estoydorado1]

Really though😂... If they don't want these hands then they should stay on the other side of that COMMON SENSE boundary. I honestly don't care if he's sex personified, if we don't know each other then there's no reason you should be aggressively grabbing me (because as you've mentioned, a number of them will get forceful)

[Opinion Owner]

fuckin A. exactly 👏👏
they don't know how hard I throw a punch, or what these hands do 😡😒🖐 ... them bitches need to stay humble and on their sensible side of respect 😒

[estoydorado1]

.. Say it louder for the people in the back!📢📢. I swear, dudes wanna act confused when I call them on it too like... HOW did that seem like a good idea to you? But you know what they say, "common sense isn't that common".

[estoydorado1]

I'm really small too so once this random guy swung on a guy who grabbed me. You shoulda seen the other guy on the ground looking offended. That random guy who stepped in was screaming "look at her! You're 2x her size"

[Opinion Owner]

Ahahha, what a fkn joke, that guy had it coming... well done ☝️😏😚 ... they just don't have the discipline or know how to handle themselves, there's that bus molester that went viral cos the girl filmed him grabbing her boobs whilst she was sleeping... she pretended to sleep until he reached further down her shirt, confronted him but the bus driver told her to just move elsewhere.. it really is a digusting behaviour.. never do onto someone else what you don't want done onto you SMH 😬😡😒

[estoydorado1]

Like @Dumbbong said, some of these people (males and females alike) are overall psychopathic in thought process so unfortunately, they probably coudn't comprehend boundaries if they wanted to. It's just scary sometimes you know? That guy who got knocked out grabbed me by the arm and was grabbing at my chest, he was about 20 and I was 15. He was litterally dragging me towards him and I tripped and nearly fell. At that age I wasn't even 5 feet yet and this guy was over 6 feet.

[estoydorado1]

And bravo to her for exposing that pervert and the spineless bus driver too.

[Dumbbong]

Sad to hear that , but I think it is also the responsibility of he parents and family members to ensure he person has enough moral values not to behave like that.

[estoydorado1]

@Dumbbong I totally agree to an extent but because the dude was somewhere in his early 20's I think it was time for him to take responsibility for that nonsense. I think he "wasn't all there" so to speak but I'm really glad he decided to be an idiot and grab me in broad daylight while we were surrounded by people.

[Dumbbong]

Psychopath... that's exactly how he should be defined. And law of the land should be considered as well.

[estoydorado1]

@Dumbbong What do you mean by law of the land?

[Hai_tis_E]

Some people just don't have any respect.

Also do you really think that people get lice because they are dirty?

[estoydorado1]

That wasn't my point really. my point was that for those people who shove their hands in strangers' hair, they don't know what's going on on that head. there could be lice or other critters hiding in there. I've actually heard that lice prefer clean scalps but I was just trying to point out how careless groping can be.

[Hai_tis_E]

Yeah I got your point with it I was just asking a question about that specific pa

[estoydorado1]

Oh, okay.

[Dim1213]

I don't like it even from friends. My female friend likes to poke me and it bugs the heck out of me cause she will randomly do it. Then move away from me the rest of the night so I can't poke her back. I did tickle her really good last time I saw her though.

[lord_chilled]

no, i think there's something wrong with people who do that. i encourage girls to throw a tantrum if someone gropes them, most gropings happen in crowded places, and if their advantage is turned against them, its very humiliating for the groper, lol

[estoydorado1]

Really though, I've kept quiet a few times out of shock and embarrassment but I should've exposed those creeps.

[lord_chilled]

i dont blame you. i had a friend in high shool, who is 6 foot and 200 pounds of muscle, even back then he was about 5 '10" and close to his current build , but one time he had his tighs and dick groped by an older dude, and he froze up and couldnt do anything,
sometimes we can't react and you dont have to feel ashamed, i mean fuck that guy.
my blood boils when i hear things like that. if i see that happen to someone i know, that groping hand is gonna end up being useless..

[estoydorado1]

Thanks for the empathy and I'm all for perverts getting humbled. Even if they require physical "assistance" to drive the lesson home. I don't understand why anyone (male or female) would feel like they could put their hands on a stranger and not get hands laid back on them. I mean really?

[lord_chilled]

they are just behavinglike predators. the reason being that that they dont get shamed and humiliated for it. if they were all humiliated in public for their actions they would stop. and yeah, some of them will need some physical assistance

[estoydorado1]

That's the truth

[lord_chilled]

thanks for mho

[estoydorado1]

You're welcome

[cavmanier]

Because they want to have sex with the person. We existed for a million years without law and people would try to do what they wanted. Creating laws doesn't change peoples desires.

[estoydorado1]

I can believe that, but the fastest way for people to cock block themselves is to come across as a pervert with 0 impulse, control aka a creep.

[cavmanier]

They probably mainly wanted to feel the thrill of touching them. Sex wasn't realistically going to happen.

[DizzyAster]

If the two are letting it happen, then whatever.
I'm one to punch a chick if she tries that to me. I don't you, bitch!!!

[estoydorado1]

Lol, I can't fault you for that tbh.

[Anonymous]

I don't care if a girl starts groping me and she's hot.
I would never just grope someone though..

[estoydorado1]

Fair enough

[BanterBlitz]

If you want me to grope you, you have to sign a form. Otherwise stay out of my personal space.

[estoydorado1]

Fair enough lol.

[SuperSecretSpyGuy]

this is MY junk, woman! You aren't entitled to it, now go have fun with yours instead why dontcha?

[jc1982]

That is not Ok. If someone does that he/she should be arrested for sexual harassment.

[ASEXY]

I don't grope strangers and I don't want strangers grabbing me... I have so many bad experiences I don't wish to talk about.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

The way i see things i don't grope strangers/I don't want strangers grabbing me.

[KristenLyn]

I've had guys try to grope me at school dances and its very creepy

[Anonymous]

i have never had that happen to me i have no idea how i would react to it

[Opinion Owner]

there are very interesting anwsers for this question

[bubblybex]

i dont do it, it totally pisses me off

[Anonymous]

thats what strip clubs are for

[estoydorado1]

Truue!

[Dumbbong]

Psychopaths

[estoydorado1]

Yeah, it's really creepy and then a lot of those guys wonder why females will scatter like he's the plague personified.

[TheWorldEndsWithYou]

Not unless they want to catch these hands

[backonthelist]

it depends on which emotion you're going for.

[backonthelist]

not a fan

[Robin48]

I do not do that.

[Anonymous]

Cuz I love tits and ass.

[Only_Pinto_Beans]

People are weird.

[AutumnWolf]

Just creepy...

[Sha84]

because we are friendly

[estoydorado1]

Do you mean with people you know? I'm big on hugging, holding hands with people I know or even strangers who ask for comfort (it's happened before). But I've had strangers just grab me and it's really alarming.

[Sha84]

to everyone

[estoydorado1]

So you'll just walk up to random people and what? Feel them up? Hug them? You do realize that's a violation of personal space, yeah? That's not friendly, it's inconsiderate.

[estoydorado1]

If someone I don't know just walks up to me and grabs me, my first thought is what are they going to do with me? Am I about to be a human shield? Are they trying to abduct me? Like I don't understand why else a complete stranger would feel entitled yank me around.

[Sha84]

you are too funny ha ha

[estoydorado1]

I'm being serious though..

[Sha84]

you are blowing things way out of proportion. all i said is i am friendly. Nothing about grabbing or abducting anybody

[estoydorado1]

Well, my question was "Why do people feel comfortable groping stranger?" Then you replied because we're friendly. I initially assumed you misread the question so I clarified that I don't mean people you know or have gotten permission from, I meant the people who will grab at, chest, privates, or anywhere tbh and they won't even know the person they're grabbing.
You then said that you'd do this to "everyone" I was explaining to you that while you might mean to be affectionate that it can be scary because in my head I'm not thinking "oh she's someone I trust" (because we've never met before). In my head, if someone grabs me into a hug or grabs a body part I get alarmed because I don't know what their intentions are and it's pretty offensive that they are taking liberties with MY body.

[Sha84]

groping is different than grabbing and abducting little girl

[estoydorado1]

My question and poll options clearly state "groping" and "grabbing"

[estoydorado1]

Which is why I was trying to explain how alarming this can be. By the way, grown women and even grown men can experience this kind of assault too and it's just so unnecessary.

[estoydorado1]

And if a stranger is forcefully violating my space. How am I supposed to know that he/she isn't about to drag me into the nearest alley?

[Sha84]

you are a pathetic introvert trying to twist friendly into a crime. go hide under your bed so nobody touches your precious body

[estoydorado1]

Wow.. that's priceless coming from a lamebrained molester. Not sure why you're so obsessed with snatching up strangers but if I had to take a shot in the dark, I'd say it's a lack of affection coming your way. A word of advice, stop being a creep and people will actually want to be around you.