Guys, why do you care about your dick size so much?

[Anonymous]

i honestly don't get why, and never will because i'll admit, i am not a guy. it's not like girls are constantly comparing and worried about the circumference of our uteruses or the length of our vaginal canal. so why do guys care so much about the length, width, circumference, etc size about their dick? you're not gonna win an award for owning the biggest dick, so why should it matter? please explain this to me so i do understand...

yah i know a guy got his name and picture in the guinness book of world records for owning an 18.9 inch dick that weighs 2 pounds or something like that lol

[Bandit74]

Well its a very intimate part of the body and its something guys are heavily judged on. Its also a common target for girls to insult guys and lower their value. Its such a common insult that there is even a hand sign designated to imply a guy has small equipment.
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While girls may "tolerate" or "settle" for an average dick in a relationship, guys know that if given a choice most girls prefer above average. Now Im not suggesting girls want a world record winning 18 inch cock, but it seems like around 7 inches is generally preffered. And while dick size may not be the end all be all to how capable a guy is of pleasing his partner it is hard to believe that it doesn't play at least a somewhat significant role. There are plenty of women who aren't afraid to admit they feel more "filled up" and are more likely to orgasm or had the best sex of their lives with a guy who has a large dick.

"it's not like girls are constantly comparing and worried about the circumference of our uteruses or the length of our vaginal canal"

Its generally accepted that its A Lot easier to get guys off than it is to get girls off. So there is more pressure on guys in that regard and if the sex was bad then its usually considered to be the guys fault. Furthermore girls aways say that vaginas are elastic and can accommodate and adapt to various penis sizes. So overall there really isn't as much of a reason for girls to be insecure about the dimensions of their vaginal cannal.

Lastly I will say that, at least for me, there is some aspects of just not liking the idea of knowing other guys were able to penetrate deeper and reach areas I can't. Like even if I genuinely believed she was really happy with what I have, I just don't like the thought of other guys being able to go deeper in her. Sure, I could get over it I suppose, but if I could spontaneously choose my dick size at will, I would always pick whatever the biggest she could handle would be.

[Midget_Hug]

"it's not like girls are constantly comparing and worried about the circumference of our uteruses or the length of our vaginal canal."

Tits. Asses. Makeup. Height. Clothing. Style. Hair. Behavior.

Women just have a lot more variance but they actually ask more of those types of questions.

[Asker]

things i don't care about: my ass, breast, height, and hip size cuz i can't change that

i dont wear makeup, my style is pretty casual, my hair is just there dangling off my head cuz i do nothing with it, and my behaviour isn't something to be compared about

[Anonymous]

Because a lot of women do. Women leave guys because their dick size isn't big enough. If a guy was unlucky enough to be born on the small side he's usually laugh at or made fun of by women. I've known women who compared their ex's dick sizes. So yeah a guys going to be concerned if his is at least a decent size.

I've even heard women say dick size matters and they mean it. Usually these women use lack of sexual compatibility as the reason for leaving a guy because he has a small dick. And yeah it does bother guys to be on the small side.

Of course here are a lot of women out there who aren't like this but on the flip side there are a lot of women who are.

Guys also care about pleasuring the girl they're with and a lot of time a good enough sized dick would help that.

[WannaPleaseMaGirl]

All the girls I've been with talk about it with their friends. And it can be a really good confidence boost. It arouses the girl to see so improved pleasure mentally. Size up to a point can be more stimulating so with less effort you can do much more. If your too thin it might feel like it is not there and that just pains to know. If it's the right thickness the girl. gets a filled feeling that apparently feels really good and makes them hornier. So yea it matters because it makes a difference. I'm not saying you need it to give her pleasure or what not but it's important and sex is for the most part PIV that's how both can have stimulation at same time so saying use fingers or oral doesn't take away the fact that if you were well equipped you might do more for her and still be able to have normal sex doing so.

[genericname85]

cause we want to pleasure our girl good and we ´re worried about if our tool can get the job done well xD that´s all there is to it. cause for us the only measurable quality in the ability to pleasure a woman is dick size. we're just pragmatic like that.

[Red-Pill-Truth]

It's similar to girls obsession with titty size.

For some girls, dick size matters.
For some guys, cup size matters.

That's just how it is.

[DamienSebastian]

We're sortof conditioned by society to think that if we're not big we're no good in bed; however this is not the case for the most part. There's such a thing as being TOO big and from what I hear that must suck.

[dannymexico90]

Your comparing the wrong things. Women definitely worry about their ass size and tits. Same thing for men. It's a sexualized object that directly correlates to your attractiveness.

[Asker]

well to be honest, i don't care about my ass and tit size at all because i can't fix them unless i get implants or injections which ain't happening

[dannymexico90]

And I don't care about my dick size anymore because I know it's more than enough.

[dannymexico90]

Not all guys care the same way not all women care

[DodgersGM]

It's mostly just insecure dudes, or dudes who need to rationalize failure with women.

[CuriousNaiv]

I think, at least part of it, is simply because it's something that's easy to compare. how could you see on two guys who will be "better" at sex?
I have no clue, but a big dick is probably a good sign for many. if it actually matters is a question I can't answer.

many answers here compare it to breastsize. that's maybe similar. if a girl had bigger breasts, or ass for that matter, then she must be a better sex partner.

logic? not really. an easy way to compare people? yep.

[AleDeEurope]

Because it's something you can't change, and women judge you by that.
It's like how women care so much about their boobs size, because they can't change it and they get judged by it

[cth96190]

Because women like to feel filled and stretched when they are fucked.
That is one of the reasons why women will drop their knees and begin to suck when they see a large penis.

[Asker]

i don't just drop right to my knees if i see a large dick

[cth96190]

@Asker
You need further training, in the hands of a strict master. :-)