What Guys Said 1
Being in the military gives a person a lot of stress. He has a lot of responsibilities and deadlines. You are the only connection that makes him feel human. He shouldn't take out his anger on you, but everyone has their breaking point. I know it hurts, but you will eventually forget this issue. Being in a relationship with a military guy is difficult. It takes a lot patience and loyalty. Just don't sweat the small stuff.
What Girls Said 1
I say you have a real "bounderies" talk with him. Please don't allow him to talk to you that way.,He'll get comfy and possibly do more.So just talk with him now and let him know that's not okay. It's okay to be upset but no need for disrespect.