Do white men find black women attractive?

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Hello I am a African American women who is attending college. I have always been attracted to white guys but never ever dated one. I would like to I think that would be different. Here at college I get flirted with and hit on by black guys all the time and Latinos .But a white guy would not even look my way. I see white guys talking to white girls Asians and every other race but black women. Black women are beautiful to lol. But I just take it as white guys think black is ugly I guess. it's crazy because you see white women with black guys all the time I guess it's just not vis versa. if anyone has a opinion I would love to here thanks.

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Their are many factors as to why this happens. One, and I think the biggest one is positive correlation. Basically the more positive association with a group or type of person the more inclined you are towards them, so if they have no interaction with black women they generally don't see them as an option. For example I had a friend that thought he would never date a black girl, then he met a black girl he liked and has now been dating her for four years. Positive correlation. The other is that black women generally don't date outside of their race, statistically speaking and as such any white guy who might find a black woman attractive is going to be hesitant to approach because he will automatically assume that she is not interested. The third reason could be fear of culture clash, if you look our society is more then happy to push white women black men relationships yet I have noticed it really does not seem to do the opposite, white men with black women so because they have not seen, or seen it as common, to be in that relationship they will presume that its not something that is acceptable or something that a black woman would want. Also you have other reasons I won't get into the details of (politics. afraid their will be a culture/ideological clash). That said plenty of guys will go with a black girl as long as they are attractive and barring the things that I listed. Not all guys are attracted to the same thing, some guys prefer petite which is not quite as common among black women as say Asians (they have found actually that more well off men tend to prefer more petite women and those who are not as well off tend to prefer thicker women, for what ever reason (personally I like both for different reasons)) so that is also something to consider. White guys tend to like girly girls in my experience (again in general (as all of this is in general) so if you like white guys consider what is it that they go after, some probably go for petite and others for girly girls. They also tend to not like "ghetto" girls so how you speak could also influence their attraction to you. That said yeah their are plenty of white guys out their who are attracted to black women (Their are a lot of attractive black women out their in my opinion), some who may not even be aware that they find black women attractive (positive correlation) and a few who just are not.

G-Daz · Accepted Answer

Just like every white guy isn't attracted to every white girl, not ever white guy is gonna be open to dating all black girls. I find it hard to believe that anyone of any race really has a strict preference for only one race (maybe some... but not many) even white guys who state they arn't attracted to black girls will ALWAYS have the exceptions. Few will reject finding rihanna, beyonce, gabrielle union etc so I think racial preference iss more environmental and socially driven rather than biological for the most part... for example in the US when white guys express an interest in women of other races it seems like they generally prefer Asian girls. in the UK its quite the opposite it seems like most white guys would prefer to date black girls and its highly uncommon to see them with Asian girls.

I find black girls very attractive, and yes... this includes the really dark ones to really light and not ones that would be stereotypes as "white looking black girls". Many white guys feel the same :D, I guess some may be put off on stereotypes about black girls though like they "act ghetto" and are "loud".

Bronzybrownchick · Accepted Answer

Some do and some don't, brown women tend not to be open to dating people who fall outside of their ethnicity, it's just the way how they have been raised, but that's not to say that they are against dating men of different ethnicities (some of them anyway). Some white guys feel that brown women are not interested them full stop and don't won't the men to hassle them about dating the women (you know the nasty remarks and dirty looks as well as threats). No one knows who will date who until people start talking to each other, you'll be surprised. :)

Mellisababiee · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy and his taste being black doesn't mean ugly it doesn't matter what pple look like it doesn't mean there ugly if some pple sae they are everyone has different opinons yuck to one man is a dimond to another =)

IHateMeganFox · Accepted Answer

Ok If I was a guy I would be all over those black women. I think they are funny, sexy, and pretty. :D

EngineeringStudent · Answer

A lot do. From what I've learned, it's pretty much like this:

-Some just aren't physically attracted to Black women at all. In this case, there isn't really anything you can do. Just understand that not everyone is going to find you attractive.

-Some may find them physically attractive, but probably will not date them due to negative stereotypes I.E Black women don't date outside their race, or they are all size queens, or the whole "Attitude" thing. In this scenario, the only thing you can do is be yourself. If one realizes that his stereotypes are a bunch of bull, he will probably date you.

-Finally, some may find them physically attractive AND would be willing to date them. Either they prefer Black women, or don't really care about race and find all races attractive.

randomguy949 · Answer

I having nothing against black girls. I like that they usually have strong personalities I think it may be part of the culture? I don't know why but black girls and latinos tend to have more junk in the trunk and I love it. Oh and I'm a white male I hope this helps.

Bleep · Answer

I don't care about race tbh, I have just never met many black women and the ones I'm attracted to are usually just girls passing me by on the street, so it's kind of hard for me to start dating one. Well OK, that last bit is kind of a lie because the girl I'm trying to get with is half black, does that count?

All in all I've seen many black women I'm attracted to, just never got the chance to pursue them.

Jamicanmecrazy · Answer

Hi,
I married a woman from Jamaica, I don't know if it's because I'm from Miami and there is a lot of diversity there and I just don't know any different or what. A course I'm a white guy to answer the obvious lol. I don't like to think in the terms of color because of what I find attractive. My wife is beautiful because I find her complexion sexy and love her for her. My first girlfriend was black so I'm not sure if I was able to see through racial barriers or if I genuinely learned to love a person for them. I think socially we were taught whats acceptable at a earlier age due to racism in the world in the 70s to 90s but nothing has ever been racial for me because my parents taught me to be so. I have always been attracted to woman that were black mainly because of there beauty I find in them. I really think it comes down to social stigma.

Phoenix1991 · Answer

Do straight men turn their heads when they see a woman with a big titties/ butt?

Do Gay men wish they could have a day with their favorite celebrity tied to their bed?

Well the point is yes, anything is possible when it comes to people, Guys will chase after white,black, Hispanic, asian, indian, Albino,etc. You just have to keep looking for your guy =)

alwayssleepydude_169 · Answer

I actually find most black women I meet to be very attractive. But we don't click when I get to know them better. Maybe someday...

Anonymous · Answer

I'm mostly attracted to white girls , however I can find black women attractive also , I just don't meet them that often...

stillagoodgirl · Answer

Some do but most won't date and make it offical

SnackG · Answer

Plenty do. I personally don't for the most part.

NewClassic · Answer

Ya I see a lot of couples on the train

johari · Answer

.some do.

Anonymous · Answer

so some of the women like caucasian men?

NordicBull · Answer

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