Sounds like a standard flirting tactic to me, drunk or sober. I'm aware of whether or not I'm touching someone even if I'm drunk-who isn't?
Basic rule- if a girl sits down next to you and is sitting so she's touching you, she's doing it for a reason. Obviously, there are exceptions, but in a situation where she has the choice of where to sit and how much space there is between you, pretty much a signal she wants your attention to some extent.
One exception for myself- my guy friends. While I generally leave space between us when it's available, if they steal my spot and there's not another one or really there's just nowhere else to sit, I'll sit on their lap. To me, it means nothing other than I'm comfortable with them and I needed a place to sit. But with most guys, and definitely with guys I like if I sit with my leg or arm against theirs or on their lap, I'm saying I'm interested, at least a little.
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I'm always aware of what I'm saying. I'll never blabber some crap that I'll regret the next morning. I'm also very aware of my actions, as in I'll never make out with some random dude. What I'm not aware of is more subtle. My judgement of body proximity is blurred, which means that I don't evaluate distances very well (ex: will hit myself on a wall because I think I have more room to move). That would apply to this girl you're talking about. I wouldn't use so much of someone's personal space without noticing, to be honest, but I also never drink too much. Once I realize that my judgement is blurred - whichever way -, it's more or less the point where I'll stop drinking.
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Yes, I find most girls act drunker than they are because somewhere they got the idea guy love drunk girls.
I'm aware physically but mentally I don't think of consequences as much and I care less about what people around me might think. I can usually control myself if I feel like I'm getting out of hand but I like to let loose, that's the point. I just let my impulses flow.
A few years ago,at a new years party,i drank 2 cups of Martini;s.I got really drunk,and I was laughing alot,and acting crazy.But I was aware what I was doing.I was lucky that my uncle was at the party,and he took me home.When I got home,i jumped in bed with my party clothes on,and fell asleep instantly.The next day,i woke up with a big headache.So,yeah,alot of girls are different when we are drunk,all of us are not the same.
it depends on the girl and how much she drinks.
me - I can tell after 2 glasses my head begins to spin, so I back off and quit. I don't drink much, so I get "drunk" easily -- but I always stop before I get drunk to the point where I could possibly do something stupid.Different people react differently on alcohol. However, some girls would act as if they are drunker than they actually are (e.g. acting inappropriately, dancing, making out with random guys), believing that alcohol gives them alibi.
There is also this lack of spatial orientation, balance and coordination induced by alcohol - which is why you've gotten that girl practically on your lap... And that is also the reason you shouldn't mix drinking and driving ;)um no if I can talk someone and make sense I know what I am doing, I just don't care ... if I am making no sense and can barely stand without help and I have been puking half the night, I am more then likely blacked out and I won't remember or be aware ...
its all about how the person acts and if you know for a fact she is sh*t faced, then more then likey either she did not care or she did not care lolGirls are always aware as to what we are doing when drunk, as are guys. We just also have no control over it, because when drunk, we believe nothing will have a consequence to it. We usually do end up regretting most of our night by morning.
Yes I am but in that condition I don't think I would care tho...
It really depends on how drunk I am - after a bottle of Lambrini and a few ciders I'm less inhibited but I definitely know what I'm doing.
yeah I'm aware of what I do when I'm drunk.
*and not a single f*** was given that night*
XDI know what I'm doing, I just don't care.
In that situation she probably knew that she was sat on your leg, she just didn't careLol yeah because everything gets dizzy and I'm not afraid to talk to guys.
Yes. I'm never THAT drunk to not know what I'm doing.
yes I am aware. but, I have only been drunk once.
Yes we are aware but don't care then regret it hahha
yes. (lightweight so badly)
Yes we are aware lol
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