I did too, when I was your age. In my case, which may not be the same for you, it was because I was constantly teased about my looks and called ugly or hideous throughout my school years and even into college. Even now, decades later, I still get 'the look' or even outright told I'm unattractive.
Naturally then, even when a girl who genuinely was attracted to me and liked me, red alarms went up all over the place. I would refuse to believe and accept she was sincere and either ignore her or even suggest she had ulterior motives. That, happened enough times, that I got hardened to it; a girl pretending to like me, be nice to me, so I would do something for her.
It took me a while to learn to trust.
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Dude, you are not the only one. Girls also think the same way, that's why they keep you as a friend for some time before you become their boyfriend. Just relax and let things happen by themselves. Enjoy the ride!
this is how a lot of girls think when some guys come up to em (many reasons y) anyway.
ur self confidence is very low or maybe you been hurt or teased by girls. you should investigate and she what she's up lol
you've been hurt before? Some girl in the past played you and now you look at all girls with suspicion?
You have low self esteem, don't believe in yourself and can't believe any girl would honestly like u?
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I was that way.I think it was because I felt I didn't look good enough or I felt like a loser.Dude your alright just be like sh*t that babe likes me awesome.If I can over come it you can to
You're very insecure. You're not confident in what you have to offer so you can't understand why someone would like you.
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