me: I'm still here. her: I know but until when? me: Until you want me to. her: That would be very long.
I want to fight for her. and respect her individuality at the same time. What should I do?
Friend, you can "Fix" anyone. If they want to be "fixed" then you can help, but if they don't want to, there is nothing you can do about it. THis is why there is the saying "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink." It seems you have been there for her, loved her, etc., but you can't fix it...
If you are not careful, you will drive her away. But you will do as you do, so I wish you well on it.
Thanks man for answering, can I ask you another question, you seem like a very practical man. Was it alright that we'd be back to "normal"? That she still wants me there. And I do too, because we're really close. but Isn't that being unfair to my self because I know deep down I have feelings and she closed the book.
I get what your saying:
I am not sure you can go back to normal for exactly the reason you say. You do have to be true to yourself and find what you are looking for. That said (and I know you are not suggesting this) there is no reason that you have to drop a bomb on her and say "Hey I can't do this." I think you just begin moving on. You can talk to her from time to time, etc. but I don't see why you just have to flat end all contact. BUt yes it is fine to move on. Girls can be hard!
Man, you were right! But I'm okay now. We kind of ended our friendship.. because I got offended when she suggested that I was asking for her to get "Karma" and rub it in my face because she's getting played by another guy. And to my surprise she's the one who got mad and when I smile at her in campus she pretends to not notice me. I really don't get that part, I mean she's the one who hurt me and she's reacting vice versa. Met an amazing girl though! Thanks again!
this is a little hard to understand, but if I was on the receiving end of that, I would assume that it was time for me to move on... though it is hard and seems crazy. (I mean really... it seems crazy... but I think you are right, I think she is sugar coating things.)
I am sorry about that bro...
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