Why are guys so selfish? I mean like, you guys wouldn't want to have sex with an ugly girl. Stop chasing them! (the pretty girls) it's SO annoying!
I don't mean to sound so shallow, but it IS true. You guys think you guys are really caring people, but when it's to ugly girls, you guys ignore them. This is really shallow of you guys, and yet you guys criticize girls for doing the same (girls caring about the good-looking guys)?
Do guys really care about the looks that much? You guys always criticize the girls by saying "WHY DO GIRLS ALWAYS CHASE THE POPULAR, HOT GUYS?"
Don't you guys do the same? I think you guys need an attitude adjustment.
What are your opinions? (please do not make random / off-topic answers)
This, young lady is a longer discussion than what any site / diary or book an afford you yet come up with no final answer.
No you don't sound shallow but I'd recommend that take life as it is. Question and research but don't ponder on things so long on certain topics that you continue doing so after you are fossilized.
There are tons of err pardon the expression leave alone not so good looking but ugly girls who think they are nature's blessing to mankind and expect the most handsome men to fall for them. Even the not so good looking guys or rather ugly guys do the same.
It's nature that makes them see things that way. Man is made basically with certain traits just the same as a woman.
No one requires an attitude adjustment here. Just that we require acceptance for certain things that nature has given us and respect it as well as other living as well as inanimate things here.
You don't like someone stay out of his/her way, if they follow you try telling them to lay off on the face.
Things are bound to happen everywhere, every time. If you keep getting bothered about everything that you are not concerned with, only you will make your life miserable while everyone else will be happy in their own sphere.
Well as a Guy, I have to be/ see myself attracted to a girl to really even care about her. It seems messed up but it's true. I don't ask for the smolding hot girl either, she can be average. My whole thing is some guys are set in a society's norm where he can get the hot girl even if he's like a 5.
Guys don't ignore ugly girls for the one simple reasons...sex. And ugly girl is always an option when it comes to getting laid. However when it's a girl if by magic no guys were feeling her if she was just left with ugly guys she would not take them and just accept she's not going to get any that night.
But to answer your question cause you never know till you try. A good looking girl may one day may go for a less good looking guy so it's alway worth a try.
Let's not pretend that girls are criticized more for this than guys. I mean, many girls have said that girls will date below them on the attractiveness scale. Sometimes that's true, but the guy has to have money. The first thing guys look for is looks. There are other things that matter too, but that's first and foremost. Girls look for someone that is set physically, socially, and financially. Then when they can't get the guy they want, they have the audacity to say stuff like "guys are so shallow." Girls ALWAYS try to play the victim in everything.
Also, "you guys wouldn't want to have sex with an ugly girl" that line is completely wrong. There are many guys that went home with an ugly chick just to get laid. So very many. When it comes to sex, guys have it a lot harder than any girl.
I'm average. Not hot, not ugly. I like to date hot girls. Why, because although I'm not a hunk, girls still like me for my personality. If I can get a hot girl to think I'm funny and awesome, why would I want to date an unattractive girl? There's nothing wrong with dating what you can get.
lol. It could have been said a little bit better...without caps lol BUT =P Why can't they? I would like to know. Okay, lets say there is a hot guy and there is a girl you or many people would consider unattractive. Some or more than likely most would say she couldn't get him and that if he did go out with her everyone would think, why? or make some reasons as to why he may be interested in her.
You're judging her solely on her looks alone if you don't know her. Same thing is applied to that very guy who is with her. You are saying he's hot and he should be with someone who is just as hot or hotter and not someone who is below par.
He could be anything from amazing to a jerk and same could be said for her. The point I suppose the point is just because a person who is not consider attractive doesn't mean that they don't have a chance because that individual that they are hitting on or trying to be with may be someone who is compatible with them on many different levels.
Not everyone writes people off even if they do think that they're hot or other people think that they are. Not everyone is the same and it's all about personal taste. Saying, "you do that so why can't I?" doesn't really justify the reason of you doing so when it comes to that. IF you do that or feel that way. If you're a decent person you treat people decently even if you're not interested in them. Not lead them on but don't act like a jerk because if someone thought that you weren't up to their standards you wouldn't want to be treated that way. Just common courtesy and sense.
Huh? I didn't think when finding love there was a rule when it came to looks. People who stay together do so because they want to be and in all honesty looks only take you so far the persons personality takes them to that next step.
That's true.but when a girl wants a hot or rich or big Dick guy they call her all the names in the book.they think they should have top choice when it comes to women and they can want whatever they want..but get mad when a girl does it because we aren't allowed to be shallow.