Is it normal to fantasize about having a boyfriend multiple times a day?

[Anonymous]

I've never had a boyfriend before and I reallllly want one and think I am long overdue for a relationship as I am in my 20's. There currently aren't any guys that like me so I make do with my imagination. I never really think of anything dirty. Its just when I go places alone I imagine what it might be like if I had a boyfriend or significant other accompany me. Or if I see a couple bonding, I will imagine myself being the girl. Or I'll imagine myself in romance movie scenarios. Is that normal and healthy or is it borderline crazy and obsessive?

[Boris9397]

Don't worry, its normal, unlike you I've had a few relationships and whenever I'm single for a while I also fantasise about having a girlfriend or be jealous when I see couples.

I would advise you to really work on getting a boyfriend: Read books on how to be attractive to men, work on your looks, get an account on a dating site, go speed dating,... Also if you get the chance to date a guy do it, even if you're not really interested, it will be good practise...

[Scoopie]

I do this too from time to time. Sometimes you just long for somebody in your life, so you begin to imagine what it would be like. It's completely normal.

[sarahbeara2010]

hii, there...

well, I certainly HOPE that it's normal! if not, then I guess you and I are just stuck in the crazyy boat together! lol...i've had several boyfriends before, but I am currently single at the moment. and yes, I do fantasize about NOT being single the same way that you do. most of the time, the guy in the fantasies is Justin Bieber...buuut, we won't go there... ")

good luck, darling!

God bless,

~sarah~

[Kamio]

l do it all of the time! I think that it is just a natural way to ease the lonelyness and figure out who would like to do those things with and the feelings that you would feel. You aren't crazy! Ha ha!