There is this guy that I have been chatting with through Voxer?

[Anonymous]

I consider him a friend.. I have never flirted with him at all.

But last night I fell asleep early and he sent me so many messages. "Are you there," uh "my name" just over and over with a ton of question marks.

Does this guy like me or is controlling or what do you think?

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Voxer is a walkie talkie app & also texting.

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No.. I didn't disappear from the chat! He texted me a few hours later.

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we were chatting a few hours before and then he texted me a bunch of stuff.

[taster]

It is almost impossible to discuss anything with anyone on this site anymore unless we are friended...why don't you friend me? I have over 600 friends on here...and it is not because I was mean to them!...Anyway you are always free to ask me anything you wish...fetishes/fixations are not easy to explain...My fascination with females urinating is life long..and it really ramped up and became totally sexual when I hit puberty...and I realized that it was not only female's peeing that I liked but their pee as well...yes the smell of female urine just about drives me crazy. Interestingly, scientists are now saying that males have female-attracting pheromones in their sweat...and females have male-attracting pheromones in their urine...lol..I could have told them that 40 years ago! When I was 12, I was on my uncle's farm at Winterset, Iowa..and, like usual, I was down at the barn...while I was there my uncle's bull went up to the rear end of his favorite cow and sniffed her...to my surprise she arched her back and cut loose a stream of pee and the bull stuck his whole nose into it and stuck out his tongue and drank as much as he could...he honestly looked as though he were really enjoying it and when she was done he found a puddle on the ground and got as much as that as he could as well...when I got back home was talking to my friend about that and he said his uncle's pigs were doing the same thing...so I have paid attention and I have NEVER witnessed any male mammal of any species that did not like the urine of their females...I have come to believe that Mother Nature or God made us that way...human have gotten away from that...but we still 98% of the same DNA as a chimp...btw.. way I do not find male urine attractive...again feel free to ask me anything...after all...isn't that why we are on this site? ...(:(:(:

[JohnScofield]

I doubt he is controlling... I suspect that he likes you and wondered why you were not around.

That is probably all.

[Asker]

He is the one that keeps sending me all the links! On my other question..

[taster]

Your surprise over sex involving pee does not dismay me...all of my gfs were surprised...lol...

The ones who really drive me nuts are the few people on here who think that pee is not cool but yet think that anal sex is perfectly normal...I mean our mothers, family & friends all pretty much conveyed the idea to us that urine is dirty...despite the fact that blood & urine are about the cleanest substances in the human body...still I can understand why someone would think that both pee and anal are unclean...or why someone might like both...or why someone (like me) is into pee but not anal...but why anyone would think that anl is cool and pee is unclean...shakes my head...really blows my mind...and I have three or four ex-friends who unfriended me over that...but you never said any such thing...Have you ever heard of Urine Therapy? This is not a proven science...but still, urine is not dirty, nor is it toxic...I will post this article fron Vanderbilt University...(:(:(:

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[Konnour]

So.. you abruptly disappeared from the chat, despite a perfectly good reason, about which he was unaware, it's totally normal he was like "what happened?" - it's just a basic politeness to inform the other person if you're going to be absent, you don't like if or when people make you to wait for them either.

[Asker]

no I didn't disappear from the chat actually! he texted me a few hours later.

[Konnour]

Weird.

Anyway I don't see any kind of a "red flag" of all this, just a simple misunderstanding, an awkward situation - that's it.

[Asker]

oh okay. thank you for your input. he is a nice guy.

[Anonymous]

If your talking about a guy in military he's married and probably married and lieing about separated

[Asker]

Huh? He isn't in the military or separated.. I really don't know what your talking about.

[Asker]

Nor is he married.