we all like confidence, even if you're a shy guy if you have confidence in something (sports/grades/work) aggressive is something else though...some girls like really alpha aggressive guys and some girls hate it. I would just be yourself cause if you aren't alpha and you're pretending she's gonna find out and dump you eventually and if you are alpha and pretending not to be? same thing applies. Get with a girl who likes your demeanor from jump. it's hard to pretend to be something you arent...
Aggressive like what?
There are guys who are bossy but really big-hearted marshmallows on the inside. Those guys are cute. They'll defend their friends and family to the max, then settle down and play catch/frisbee in the yard with their nephews, etc.
There are guys who are nasty to waiters and secretaries because they're "too good" for their own company. Those guys are horrid to be around. Life is worrisome enough without spending one's spare time with a rude guy.
Some girls love it. Actually most people like being dominated how ever slightly... both guys and girls. Being rough and pushy is a HUGE turn on for me... I like being held hard, kisses with biting and being rough handled, but I do the same to my men. Some guys don't like it, just like some girls don't. Start off gentle to be safe and watch how she reacts as you get rougher and rougher. If she looks distressed, stop.
A lot of dudes confuse being aggressive with over-stepping the touch barrier, because some dudes seem to think there is nothing wrong with groping women in clubs and stuff, and imo that is just wrong.
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Honestly it depends on the girl, but for me I have to know the guy really well due to tramatic experiances, like if I just met a guy and he pushed me to the wall and was being agressive I would freak the f*** out. but if I'm dating a guy and I know he is gentle and kind hearted then I have no problem with him grabbing me and throwing me onto the bed and being a little "forceful" and "agressive" it all depends on the girls personality really.
It's not about being aggressive, it's about showing her you're attracted to her.
I love when my guy pushes me to the wall while kissing me. It makes me feel desired, and I take it as a sign of passion.
He's still careful not to hurt me in the process though ^^ I wouldn't want to know myself unconscious XD
Many, many girls are turned on by a guy's confidence/dominance, and pushing her against the wall is a sign of that. I know many girls who complain their boyfriends are not aggressive enough with them. By aggression I don't mean anything that could actually hurt them, just a bit of that manly initiative.
But a few may not react to it very well.
I like guys who are ASSERTIVE.
Perhaps, a bit aggressive in bed. What you did to that girl, made her feel wanted/desired. That's why she loved it.
Depending on the girl! Honestly I do like guys that are rough but don't take it overboard either! Girls like guys who take control and be rough with them... But we love guys who are sweet with us were GIRLS who doesn't love a sweet guy rite? Well hopefully I helped you with your question :))
I generally like when a guy is aggressive but only in certain situations. If he's showing me that he likes me by behaving like that then it's cool, but don't go overboard.
not unless he's in a relationship with me, I don't like aggression in guys when I Don't know. honestly would freak me out.
depends on the type of girl.
A lot of girls like it but be careful because not all do. A former friend of mine decided to try that with me. We were just friends but he decided that since I broke up with my boyfriend he would hit on me. I told him bluntly to stop. When didn't after the third time, I completely emasculated him with my words. He deserved a good kick in the balls since he was getting physical with me but I used my words instead.
Omg I love it.once I was arguing with this guy and he told me to shut up and I kept going, and then he grabbed my face and made out with me.loooooved it! I still think about that moment...
Depends. For me I like a guy who's aggressive but its too an extent. If I feel threatened by you then I have to put my foot down and let you know I'm not the one. But if your yelling but not in anger or physically aggressive bit not to harm... I'm all for for it. In fact if you tower over me its a bonus. I like to feel small for some weird reason.
Yeah I like guys who arnt affraid to take power and have dominance and control. Being made to do things is such a turn on.
assertive is probably more the key word
Aggressive in bed
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