Why is it the meaner you are to a guy, the more he chases after you?

There is this guy that did something I felt was mean, so I'm pretty much over it.i'm the type of girl, once I get turned off or seriously mad,I just am over you and don't see any reason keeping an a**hole around. Well anyway,I ignore his calls, when we see each other I refuse to talk to him and I... Show More

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  • Treat them mean to keep them keen. I don't really believe in it though - it's pretentious, and I think the more you show genuine appreciation for someone, the more they like you.

    Also, not all guys think like that. Some do, they will take your meanness as a challenge. Some (like me) are more timid and will move on if I feel it's not happening.