so yeah, as the question stated above. Can you girl tell me what drove you crazy, that you would want your ex back? other than the fact that he's dating or talking to someone else? Like I mean What really drive you nuts, that you would just do anything at all to get him back?
At first I thought long and hard about if I only wanted him back because I was feeling rejected. But after a long time, I realized I did genuinely miss him, not just having him. Our split was very abrupt, to say the least, and it was a total slap in the face. Within 18 hours, he went from telling me I was the best thing in his life, to us having a stupid fight, to him not wanting to be with me because he was too hurt from all the negativity in his life and seeing that hurt as something I did. So I want him back because I truly believe we can be happy, and I'm pretty sure he's not close to over what we had yet.
I want him back because what we had was very special, and he treats me better than any guy I've dated, met, or seen treating other women.
It's not just the chase. Sure, the chase makes things more frustrating and makes us want to try harder sometimes, but when you're with someone so closely for so long, it's not just about the chase anymore.
I broke up with my guy spur of the moment because I thought it would make him want me more. I could tell he was sad but he handled it with a very level head. I was with another guy during our two/three day breakup and everything he did reminded me of the guy I was truly in love with. It drove me nuts, and when I was asking people advice they just acted like I was crazy for breaking up with someone if I loved him. That and I genuinely missed him...If she really wants you she'll come back on her own, if she doesn't, its better to not get back together anyway
theres no magic formula, its all about what you meant to them, and how genuine their feelings were for you, its all about the person and what they feel for u. and for everyone its a different story. I miss a certain guy in my life right now because he's the only guy I ever loved. I just loved him as a person, he wasn't even that good looking, but in my eyes he was sexy cause I just liked us together. I felt like we just belonged. he obviously didn't value me as much as I valued him. he let me go.
ok I defiantly wouldn't want to get back with him if he moved on and dated someone else, I am just not that way. If I saw him following his dreams and becoming successful at whatever he loves doing then I may regret breaking up and possibly want him back..