If I love a girl, and she get sick, I promise I would take care of her, even if she can't walk I would walk for her, even if she can't breath I would breath for her, even if she can't eat I would help her, and if I loved that girl and she get sick or something, I would still marry her and care for her rest of my life.
It depends. But if you already had the fatal condition, no. If it was a long term condition like say mental illness, no. If it was something like acid reflex which everyone has, sure. But honestly, I wouldn't expect someone to want to be with me on the basis I smoke now. So in the end I can understand not wanting to be with someone cause they may die in a sooner time frame than a non smoker. But my boundaries aren't any higher than my expectancy. If we were together for quite some time, like a year or more, I wouldn't bail out, I rarely bail out if its within a month, it is really a gray area based on circumstance for me.
I don't care whatever she has...but if I love her the cancer might be a problem...because if she passes away then it'll be hard to get over it...i would need at least a year to find someone else...But I would put a lot of afford to be with her no matter what and make her happy
This question has come up due to a disabled relative. She finds it incredibly difficult to find good reliable partners to look at anything but her disability. (Though there are loads of people out to use her.)
The trouble is, rationally, I can see why.
In this case it is a physical disability causing very limited muscular stamina in all limbs.
Why would you get into a relationship, develop emotional attachment, with someone you knew was going to be hassle all your lives, that you would have to take extra measures, be unable to share sporting activities, etc.
The scenario changes though for someone you were already in a relationship with. You have that bond and just have to deal with the issues whatever disability may cause.
if she had the issue before I met her, chances are I would not allow myself to get to know her.
but if I loved a woman and something happened to her while I was with her, I would stand by her.
Like if she had those problems and I just met her then its probably a deal breaker. If I've been dating them for like a few years then it probably won't be a deal breaker