Girls what do you mean when you say a guy is immature?

[douchebag4eva]

So many girls say they wouldn't date younger guys because they are immature, and not as mature as older ones. What do you mean by this? Less experienced? Not willing to settle? More likely to cheat?

[GoldenWing]

Lol! It means exactly what it says! Immature :) if a girl says that then she's less likely to go for a guy like that, because it's just a turn off. Some girls like it & some don't. I like when a guy makes a lot of jokes, a guy who's funny & does silly things sometimes, when other girls would find it "immature". It means that she looks for maturity in a guy I guess.*

[douchebag4eva]

defining a word using the root word in the definition... you're a champ!

[shelbo_38]

When I use the term immature for a guy, I typically reference it to certain actions that he is doing. Such as making perverted jokes/comments, etc. Just acting like a young boy does before he hits his teen years. I think everyones opinions of immaturity differs.

[nhardin289]

It means you do not have your "3's" down. You don't know who you are, You don't know what you are doing (work related mostly/way of living) and what you make (money, out of life, goals). If you don't have at least 2 out of 3 of those goals down or at least working towards them, girls will see you as immature. You will never find a keeper if you don't have those.

[douchebag4eva]

never say never... Justin Bieber taught me that. And isn't 2 nd 3 the same thing?

[nhardin289]

not really. 2) is what you are doing with your life as far as work goes, career, how are you making a living? 3) is how much you make, will it be enough to help support a family with her, can you support yourself?

[douchebag4eva]

fair enough, thanks

[Someone1]

Only problem is you don't want to give anything to a girl expecting all that stuff from you. You would rather give it to someone who doesn’t because she will be staying true to you for better or worse and therefore deserves it better.

[nhardin289]

IF a woman that wants to be your keeper she will ask you at least 5 questions concerning your goals and expectations for life, how you live now, and the future. The way you answer them will determine if she will stick around or think you are immature and need to grow a bit more.

[Someone1]

She can ask all she wants but if that is the reason she is with me then I don't need her in my life at all because she is a free rider that is waiting to use you and is only in it for herself till she can find the next replacement of a man to use for her selfish gains.

She only gets what she deserves ain't no free rides here, some of them are good at hiding it also, pretending they like you but is only after your money and potential.

[nhardin289]

Not all women who ask these questions are "gold diggers" they want to see if they fit into your plans as far as a long term relationship. I don't think it bad for them to ask that. We women have certain expectations, not to gold dig or find a "free" ride. Take for example myself. I work in the medical field. I provide for my two children. I work part time both in retail and free lance bartend for events. BUT when I'm looking for a man who wants something long term, I will ask these questions.

[Anonymous]

when a guy acts like a child, doesn't know how to act like a man.

[douchebag4eva]

then how does a man act...

[Opinion Owner]

I can only answer that by explaining what I want in a man, every girl is different.

[Opinion Owner]

he acts like his age for one, knows how to treat a woman, and respects her. Takes matters seriously and doesn't play games.