Does it mean anything when a guy asks you to be his new years kiss?

A guy I kind of like asked me if I had a new years kiss and I said no so he was like can I be it ? ... I said no Because I don't like the awkwardness ... but I wanted to know if it meant anything ? he flirts with me a lot and stuf .. but I wanna know if he just wants a hook up or does he kind a like me too ... thanks :)


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  • Let me see if I have this correct...he flirts with you all the time and he asked to kiss you and your question is does he like you? Really?

    YES! You know he does, you don't need us to tell you that. He might just want to hook up, but normally a guy would not spend a long time flirting with a girl just to get a hook up. Those type of girls are easy enough to get in one interaction---why would he waste time with you if he didn't like you and just wanted a hook up? I don't see it.

    I would bet you he has genuine feelings for you, but I am pretty sure you know this yourself already.

    • thanks a lot :) ... just the fact that he hooks up with people confused me ... he's not really the kind that pays attention to annyone and he usually just hooks up ..and guys always flirt with me so I don't really know who likes me and who doesn't .. I just don't want to be a simple hook up for him

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    • yea your right :)) I might sound stupid right now asking this but I'm usually really confused ... because generally all the guys around me flirt with me I don't really know the difference between a guy that likes me and flirts with me and a guy that's flirting with me for a hook up ... so what's the difference ? how can I tell ?

    • I would say if a guy is genuinely interested in you as a person, he isn't going to be flirting with other girls too...that is to say, you will be his focus. Whereas guys that are just trying to get some will hit on every girl and see which one responses to them.

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What Guys Said 13

  • Most likely likes you, but with the limited info, its really hard to say if he was only interested in a hook up. Like the others have said though, wanting to have sex with you comes with wanting to date you. They are not entirely exclusive.

    Wanting just a hook up means only sex, wanting to date you means a relationship and sex. Sex is always on the table, unless of course he's not human or doesn't have a penis.

    • It's kind of true, but since I want a serious relationship I wouldn't want to sleep with a girl on the first date (probably not even the first month).

  • I wanted a New Year's kiss, too, because I was secretly hoping some girl wanted one, too.

    That and it would be my first kiss with a non-relative / animal -the start of a New Year and maybe the start of new possibilities!

    Alas, I never asked any girl for a NYE kiss. I did dance with a couple girls from a meetup group, though (my first meetup is better than no first anything I guess). It turns out I'm better than average at dancing...I think.

  • Did he or did not use tongue?

  • Wow, really? Well if some girl would flirt with me all the time and wanted for me to kiss her, I also wouldn't have any idea if she liked me... :)

  • He probably really likes you and finds you attractive. Yes, it's true, sex is always in the back of a guy's mind (and in the front and middle too). But that doesn't mean he saw you that night (New Year's Eve) just as a hookup. The thing about guys thinking about sex is that, well---they just can't help it. They can't NOT think about sex. But that doesn't mean every guy is a jerk when it comes to just wanting to be with a girl for just that one thing. I bet he really likes you.

    • Most guys think about sex at some point (unless they are asexual or something).

      The guys who are players (aka man-whores) think about sex with ALL of the women they find attractive.

      The guys who are serious think about sex all the time with just ONE woman they really like.

      The guys who are single think about sex with ANY woman until they find one they are crazy about. Then they become serious.

      It's the difference between a one-night stand and an every-night stand.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Gosh the same thing happened to me! I'm so glad I'm not alone. I'm just going to snoop at the guys' answers so I don't have to ask my own question. :P

  • It sounds like he's interested in you.