A guy I kind of like asked me if I had a new years kiss and I said no so he was like can I be it ? ... I said no Because I don't like the awkwardness ... but I wanted to know if it meant anything ? he flirts with me a lot and stuf .. but I wanna know if he just wants a hook up or does he kind a like me too ... thanks :)
Let me see if I have this correct...he flirts with you all the time and he asked to kiss you and your question is does he like you? Really?
YES! You know he does, you don't need us to tell you that. He might just want to hook up, but normally a guy would not spend a long time flirting with a girl just to get a hook up. Those type of girls are easy enough to get in one interaction---why would he waste time with you if he didn't like you and just wanted a hook up? I don't see it.
I would bet you he has genuine feelings for you, but I am pretty sure you know this yourself already.
Most likely likes you, but with the limited info, its really hard to say if he was only interested in a hook up. Like the others have said though, wanting to have sex with you comes with wanting to date you. They are not entirely exclusive.
Wanting just a hook up means only sex, wanting to date you means a relationship and sex. Sex is always on the table, unless of course he's not human or doesn't have a penis.
I wanted a New Year's kiss, too, because I was secretly hoping some girl wanted one, too.
That and it would be my first kiss with a non-relative / animal -the start of a New Year and maybe the start of new possibilities!
Alas, I never asked any girl for a NYE kiss. I did dance with a couple girls from a meetup group, though (my first meetup is better than no first anything I guess). It turns out I'm better than average at dancing...I think.
He probably really likes you and finds you attractive. Yes, it's true, sex is always in the back of a guy's mind (and in the front and middle too). But that doesn't mean he saw you that night (New Year's Eve) just as a hookup. The thing about guys thinking about sex is that, well---they just can't help it. They can't NOT think about sex. But that doesn't mean every guy is a jerk when it comes to just wanting to be with a girl for just that one thing. I bet he really likes you.
Hmmm, hard to tell. Especially because it's just a new years kiss. Lots of people kiss at new years just because of the tradition, and a lot of the times it means nothing. And flirting, again, can just be fun and not mean anything. Maybe he just wanted someone to kiss at new years, maybe he actually does like you. Does he pursue you or try to hook up with you ever?