How do you act when talking to a guy that you find cute? Do you have hard time with eye contact. Are you a little bit more shy, what goes on in your crazy head lol..?
Ladies, how do you behave around a cute guy?
It really depends on the guy. Usually I feel more nervous so my mind goes blank and I don't know what to say or I won't use contractions or shorter words for some reason...like I'll say "thank you it was good" "you are right" and things like that, I don't know why, but I feel like it makes the phrases sound weirder...but that's what I do. But really it depends on if the guy makes me feel comfortable or not. Some cute guys I'll actually talk to him even though I phrase stuff weird and get nervous (plus I'm a shy person in general so talking to them is pretty good for me) and some cute guys will make me feel comfortable enough to where I flirt with them a bit but am still nervous and a bit shy, and then some cute guys don't make me comfortable so I get more shy around them and if I talk to them it's not for long or I talk quieter :/
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I am really shy.
Basically, I have really bad self esteem. If I see someone I like it's basically like this.
"aww he's cute... but he wouldn't be interested in me. Shrink into a tiny ball, wrap cardigan round to hide tummy, look away, sneak glances but don't do anything" I look but can't maintain eye contact, too scared he'll glare and be thinking "what's that retard staring at me for"
I still do this with my boyfriend subconsciously. I will wrap myself into my hoody and lower my head. He's so used to me doing it I'm not even sure he notices! We're ex's, but been back together for about 10 months now to put it in context :)
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To me it really depends on whether or not they are flirting/showing interest. If they don't then I'm completely normal and treat them like everyone else. If they do/are, I guess I just look pretty happy and accept their advances until I feel like they are genuine enough to try flirting back. With guys whom I'm obviously going to have nothing to do with in the future, if they are good looking I'd probably flirt from the start. Why? because it's a one time thing, flirting is fun, and there's no real emotional involvement if you just meeting once.
Personal experience from sloots when they want the D
at maccas= free upsize
at kfc = free chicken wings
at uni = Admission ladies give you xtra points to get into a higher course because I'm an aesthetic charming, cheeky c@#t
sloots keep looking at you + smiling + nudging each other and whispering to each other commenting on what your wearing or holding
bump into you smiles and hoping for a convo. me = makes a joke, a small smile, keeps walking no f@#ks given
sloot shy as f@#k around you = would not give long eye contact ( unless she is an alpha female= no fanks jeff) giggles and makes heaps of mistakes.
could go on but this is when they wan the D
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ok semi srs
ok gud luck son in reading sloots because you just can't sometimes
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I see it like this with girls.
Cute guy=OMG he's so cute I wish he would talk to me?
Ugly guy= What a creep if he comes near me, I'm gonna call the cops.
Me= Damn what an ugly POS.
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Hmm...if I just met him, am interested but not smitten, and I'm not intimidated by him:
LOTS of eye contact
laugh a lot
I probably seem very concious of my actions
Touch his arm and stuff if it makes sense
Talk to him
On the other hand, if this guy is a long term crush and I REALLLLLLY want to date him and not f*** up:
Act like a total idiot
say dumb things I would never say
cower under his gaze
act extremely socially awkward
impersonate a pterodactyl
blush
go pale
become the dumbest person in the universe
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There are cute guys; good-looking, kind, approachable, and gentlemanly, but not necessarily overly buff, then there are 'hot' guys; good-looking, UNapproachable, UNgentlemanly, cocky, and very buff.
To the cute guys: lots of eye contact, smiles, easy to talk to, pretty relaxed.
To the 'hot' guys: very little eye-contact, tension, I get easily irritated, guarded, hard to think of what to say to them and so when they talk to me, I just pretty much blank out or reply with 1-3 word statements lol
Then there are those few that are cute guys, nice, and I instantly like (no idea why). But despite their east-to-talk-to nature, how do I act? Like a darn dummy. I smile a lot, get very nervous, can't think of how to respond (unless I'm chatting with them via texts), but surprisingly, I still manage to keep pretty constant eye contact with them haha -
there's lots of cute guys, its if they have something good upstairs that I keep interest in. so I put guys in 2 categories when I meet any of them... the husbands and the hook ups. ahah husbands get no sex first time I meet them & hook ups do. husbands get a # & dates. hook ups I hope to never see again, no exchanging contact info, sometimes you gotta lie if you have to. husbands, I spend talking the whole night because we click that well and hook ups, well I don't do too much talking because they are just a nice face for the night.
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I am normally quite talkative and sociable but the minute I start talking to a guy I'm attracted to I panic lol. I become really shy, I avoid eye contact and I say/do the stupidest things xD However, if I'm more comfortable around him then those nervous habits tone down...honestly, all I'm thinking is how to avoid making a fool out of myself in front of this cute guy :D
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If I have a boyfriend already I don't think much of it. Yesterday a cute guy started asking me help in math class and I just helped him. Haha. And sometimes I get excited if I'm single or sometimes I'm spacing out too much to notice if I have a lot going on.
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I can't help but smile, or try not to and I like analyze his face, I look down at times blushing, I'm focused on him what he's saying if I didn't think he was cute I'd talk and look at other things and him,
if a guy is cute, I'll act a little shy, I get bright eyed, if he's cute I might even tell him depending on the flow of the convo
I'd give him my # if I liked him more than just his cute factor -
Nerves, I become self conscious incase he doesn't like me. I start to become shy, blush and fidget alot. I also smile more, act more clumsy (I can't help it) and try not to get caught looking at him- if we catch eyes at the same time I'll look down immediately lol
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Nervous and very conscious about myself. There was even a time I completely forgot what I need to say and stuttered while talking to him. I don't really have a problem with eye contact though because if not, he'll definitely guess that I like him, that would be kinda embarrassing. XD
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I keep eye contact,but also my eyes are...roaming over him. I'm pretty forward,HOWEVER...I usually treat guys I think is attractive,the same as I would other guys until I feel like its safe to properly flirt.
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Honestly, I've gotten better. Now, I am usually outgoing and relaxed. But I used to be such a mess! I couldn't even make eye contact before. I guess I stopped caring haha
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I always get nervous. I make eye contact and talk to him like any other guy and as soon as I get him to laugh I'm not so nervous anymore.
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Very nervous, but I will make more eye contact if I like him, it's like he's the only guy in the room. And I sound like an idiot who can't say full sentences or remember what's going on cause I'm so shy.
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I get kind of nervous and sometimes will blush. I do eye contact more though when I find a guy attractive..might give him some sort of compliment too.
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i sometimes get a little bit nervous but not to much then I tend to be flirty haha!
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Shy, can't speak to him, stare sometimes, nervous inside.
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Up until a few months ago I'd get really clumsy around cute guys. Since I work for a company that only hires attractive people, all that has changed.
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I will feel shy and nervous. I will be blushing while thinking damn he is cute lol.
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No , Only if I'm interested . And I really have to find him special before I will start feeling nervous.
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i act a bit shy at first then I talk to him for a bit then I most likely feel comfortable around him :)
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I just go bright red or hardly talk incase I stutter
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