I would honestly be very shocked! My boyfriend knows our anniversary like the back of his hand and our first anniversary lasted 2 days. (he took me on a secret anniversary date then I took him on one). I would be a bit sad and would bring it up to him. If you're asking this I assume it happened to you. Each person is different and its important to respect yourself and your boyfriend/girlfriend.If your first anniversary was planned beforehand then he seems to be cool with anniversaries in general. Your rhythm might just be off. Some people celebrate every week (mostly in junior high) some every month (mostly high school) some every 100 days (mostly korea) some every year, some every 5 years, some never, and some just the first time. So he might not have forgotten but simply thought it wasn't a big deal because he has a different rhythm. Don't get mad as him, just talk to him about it.
If it were my husband then I would probably get just a tiny bit upset. But as for my boyfriend, no. Our anniversary was 2 months ago and I didn't even realize until probably a good 5 hours into the day. As Iv gotten older I don't really remember the day I meet bfs so I don't really give myself opportunity to get sentimental about it. It wouldn't hurt my feelings if my boyfriend did the same.
I'm not a very sentimental person so in all honesty, it wouldn't be a big deal to me. I'd just tell him happy anniversary if I remember and if he says oh crap I forgot I would laugh about it. I wouldn't be sad or anything.
It wouldn't really bother me. Some people forget and some people don't like making that big of deal out of things, as in it's just another day for them.
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I recently forgot me and my now ex-girlfriends anniversary. She told me that I forgot it at around 11pm the night of. It blew up into a huge fight which lasted about a week. In the end it’s what ended our relationship.
I feel like she very much overreacted. Maybe if we were married or if I wasn’t being attentive or caring it would be a more understandable reaction. But to throw 3 years of our relationship away due to one silly mistake which I tried to make up for and even promised it would never happen again after seeing how much it hurt her felt ridiculous. Morale of the story is if it means a lot to them set a date on your calendar, if not then it’s just another day to spend with someone you love.
It wouldn't bother me at all. It's only a date, after all. The fact that we're still together is more important to me.
I wouldn't care
I don't remember dates though
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