I know this guy, he's 34, with great career, money, car, house, perfect looks, everything is perfect, he's basically more than ready to marry someone. He already has a girlfriend, but what baffles me, why is he still not marrying her? I mean, if you already have everything, what makes you still not marrying a girl you claimed you love? I thought that when you really met that special someone, you will have this urges to marry them right on the spot. Thoughts anyone?
He's from a country where the people will push you to get marry young especially if you already have everything, aka traditional people. And yes, he's still living there in that society and I honestly believe he values their tradition too.
Please I know in USA people can live together without getting married just like that, but in his country is nothing like that, it's something that both families will frowned upon. So any other reason that you could think of why he's still not marrying her?
maybe he doesn't see the need to rush into something , keep in mind a marriage is a complex legal arraignment and if his relationship were to not work out he's not out much but if a marriage doesn't work out he could be out thousands $ . sometimes its not about love but about money and maybe he wants to make sure she's not just after that I don't know . you have to remember 100 years ago divorce was rare and marriages lasted till death but now divorce is common and divorce laywers common , this has really changed the dynamics of marriage and caused some guys to be more cautious
He probably wants to make sure that the girl is really right for him. He might not be sure that she's truly wife material or mother material. Also, he could want a better girl, but that she'll do for now. Meaning he's attracted to her, but not crazy about her. You might assume that he loves her more than he does. A man who is hot, has money and is successful doesn't have to marry just because a woman wants it. He marries on his own terms the woman he wants to marry.