Okay, so there is this guy at the gym and I think he's so attractive and hot, lol. We've never spoken, but it seems like we always always make eye contact. Like he's always looking at me and I just turn my head, even though I totally want to smile and stare him down. He could be in the weight room across the gym and I look up and he's staring at me. Does this mean anything? I'm kinda shy, but if he asked me out, I would say yes in a heartbeat. I think he's older than me which I like I'm 28 and he looks to be around 30-35 ish, lol. What do I do?
Maybe he's interested, but doesn't know what to say you, could possibly think you're taken, or may think you're out of his league. I mean, there could be a thousand different possibilities why he hasn't said anything.
If he's super hot and buff, he's likely a player if he's single. Guys like that don't stay single for long if they like relationships. If you are okay with just being one of his flings, then approach him. But if you want a serious relationship, these types will pump and dump you quickly more often than not. I used to work at a gym and guys like that would eat girls up and spit them out regularly. Just giving you fair warning if you're not into casual sex and no commitment!