If she's shy, try to talk to her on fb or get her # and text her. It will be easier to get to know her over text or fb, because if she's shy then she'll feel more comfortable talking that way to someone she doesn't know. Ask her questions about herself and let her knows things about yourself too. Talk about common interests and tell different stories about things. Just get to know her better. When you guys have become closer through text/fb, try talking to her in person more. Say hi to her in the halls and in class so she gets to be more comfortable around you in person. Try to start a conversation with her gradually in person. If you guys have any mutual friends, talk to her while she's with that mutual friend so she feels more comfortable. Compliment her too to make her feel special, but don't say anything that will make her feel uncomfortable.
You have to make yourself approachable and you have to be able to let her trust you. I mean, you can't really MAKE someone like you you just have to let her know that it's okay that to be around you. I know you don't want anybody to say "be yourself" but that is key when it comes to talking to her first. Just go up to her and say hi. Ask her a question. Does she do any hobbies or anything? For example, when I used to like this guy, I knew he loved to draw because he was drawing in his sketchpad and I'd go up to him and say, "Hey. So you like to draw?" and from there, I'd try and make a conversation. It's all about easing into everything. No need to pressure or her. Some girls aren't necessarily shy but they just don't want to talk to other people. Just confront her in an easy-going way and see what happens.
sounds like your dating me.
anyways.. don't call her emo she'll probably punch you in the face because "emo" is not a compliment.
It's hard for me to open up to people. takes me a really long time.
Stay committed to trying to figure her out. Ask he lots lots of questions. Talk about what you have in common that you gather from the questions. Talk about the qualities about yourself that you have in common with her. Take her to places she'd enjoy- concerts, movie, theme park. No where one-on-one ( dinner) as that's intimidating for a shy person.
Just takes time dear.
Talk to her often so she becomes more comfortable around you. Look as attractive as you can. Don't be afraid to take it to the next step, ie make a move or ask her on a date.
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If you're opposed to using the "be yourself" tactic, it's not going to work out.
People have tried to date me before by moulding themselves into what they think I want even though it's not them.
They can't keep the charade up for long and I dump them for being liars.
Well I guess you can just say she's shy,emo really has nothing to do with it.It seems hard to befriend some since they're distant but I have a few friends like that you just have to get to know them.You can't really get her to like you but fhe might already like you!
Idk how to give advice on shy girls eventhough I am one all I can say is get to know her.Good Luck
you should try to like her music, long flippy hair, black skinny jeans and band tees might make her more confertable around you. Then just talk to her like you would to one of your friends. Either that or grow some balls and ask the girl out!
Talk.to.her
Make a connection and find things you have in common with her
And how can you remove somebody comment? Lol
you can't remove any comment you want.lol But anyways you should talk to her about music, emo girls love their music.
well, get to know her.Try to be into what she is. the music she likes, what she eats, that kinda stuff. learn more about her.simple.
Common interests? Music, games etc?
try to find what yall have in common. like music
What if you dont have a phone to contact her?
be 'emo' yourself :D
I mean, yeah, but what if your already frieds?
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