Is this totally stupid of me to do

so the guy I dated before and I stopped talking in November, he totally began ignoring me etc and its so sad cause I know him so well and he didn't have the guts to tell me he was dating another girl that he is in a relationship with I havnt talked to him for months and he is my best friend but we dated and I use to talk to him everyday and see him often etc now that he lives in my town and he was my first everything so I am upset..

anyways is it toally awkward if I write him and ask to get back a dear necklace of mine that I forgott at his place last time I slept over, its white gold with diamonds I got from my dad that I've never met, I mean I don't care about my dad a lot but it still does mean something..

its been months so is it stupid if I ask him for it now? and he knows it is there..


Most Helpful Guy

  • It's fine to ask for it back, he shouldn't care one bit. But yeah if he hasn't spoken about it then hopefully he still knows where it is.

    However on the chemistry side of me : White gold isn't real, its probably like 3 karat gold and 21 karat silver. (mostly silver)


What Guys Said 6

  • As long as you manage to keep it to strictly business, you should ask him for it. Don't let it turn into a lengthy and awkward conversation. It is an important piece of jewelry for you, you are all rights of asking for it. I would recommend you to ask for it asap, otherwise he could get rid of it, or give it away or something and you don't want that to happen to your necklace.

    you could text him saying that you will pass by his house later in the day or the next day to pick it up to please make it ready. You knock say hi, get your stuff, tell him you hope he is doing OK and bye. turn around and start walking.

  • You should ask for it back ASAP! Send him a text or call.

  • You should have asked for it back sooner.

    Hopefully he still has it.

  • Why write him? Why not show up at his place and ask about it? If he can't find it right then and their say it's OK but just keep a lookout for it and he should return it. Guys don't care about jewelry.

  • Hopefully he did not pawn it, sell it or give it to another girl. He is a jerk to not of voluntarily given it back by now. Just call and tell him you are coming by to get it. Keep it simple.


What Girls Said 1

  • no. It's important to you, he should understand and return your property.