so the guy I dated before and I stopped talking in November, he totally began ignoring me etc and its so sad cause I know him so well and he didn't have the guts to tell me he was dating another girl that he is in a relationship with no..so I havnt talked to him for months and he is my best friend but we dated and I use to talk to him everyday and see him often etc now that he lives in my town and he was my first everything so I am upset..
anyways is it toally awkward if I write him and ask to get back a dear necklace of mine that I forgott at his place last time I slept over, its white gold with diamonds I got from my dad that I've never met, I mean I don't care about my dad a lot but it still does mean something..
its been months so is it stupid if I ask him for it now? and he knows it is there..
As long as you manage to keep it to strictly business, you should ask him for it. Don't let it turn into a lengthy and awkward conversation. It is an important piece of jewelry for you, you are all rights of asking for it. I would recommend you to ask for it asap, otherwise he could get rid of it, or give it away or something and you don't want that to happen to your necklace.
you could text him saying that you will pass by his house later in the day or the next day to pick it up to please make it ready. You knock say hi, get your stuff, tell him you hope he is doing OK and bye. turn around and start walking.
Why write him? Why not show up at his place and ask about it? If he can't find it right then and their say it's OK but just keep a lookout for it and he should return it. Guys don't care about jewelry.