I was with her but not really entirely as her boyfriend and she loved me but we were distant physically and she started dating other guys and felt bad about feeling guilty over it and never returned to me again. She never gave me real explanations of why she left. If she only says "i changed" what does that mean ? I tried to ask her what is it that changed that made her not love me that way and she would not tell me. I know she has fears of commitment so she might not like how I love her and how she could hurt me but I keep wondering if there is more to it than that. I would like to figure this out so I can fix in myself what might have been wrong because me and her do have good chemistry I swear we do and we both accept each other entirely and she finds me attractive so I don't understand.
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1) She likes someone else.
2) Your true colors are finally showing. They might not be bad, and they probably aren't, but maybe she just doesn't like them.
3) She feels like she's too mature for you.
4) She is immature herself or needs time to get used to commitment.
5) She wants to see other people for the sake of seeing people before settling down with one person because she feels like she's depriving herself or settling for one relationship when she could find a "better" one or even just a new experience.
6) Sometimes, people can get sick of each other after spending too much time together. Maybe she'll miss you, maybe she won't.
7) Maybe you're either a) a doormat or b) too cold to her.
8) If you like Nickelback, that can also be a deal breaker.1