Why is it unhygeinic and dirty to have a lot of body hair just everywhere? Body hair is natural protection, I guess.
I had a girl who was a bit polite about my extra hair...she told me its totally gross and unacceptable to have thick back/shoulder hair..rest at least put an effort to groom and maintain hygeine..and try to look and smell like human,if you want a htman female (girl/woman).
As a female who does not like body hair here are my reasons why
1) for SOME men it is a hygiene issue. If causes them to sweat more and retain body odors.
2) I don't like how excessive hair feels. When getting intimate with someone I don't want to get hair all in my mouth when kissing their body, or run my fingers through thick masses. When things really start heating up and were both sweating its going to get sticky and feel even more gross. Physically I can't get attracted to excessive body hair- I'm only interested in humans, not Sasquatch.
3) it looks sloppy, like you don't care about maintaining your appearance. Yes there's more to a person than their looks but it's your first impression so why wouldn't you want to be the most aesthetically pleasing as you can possibly be? For most people this boils down to laziness, lack of pride or both-none of which are desirable.
I'm not saying you should go in to get waxed right this second- there's plenty of women who don't care and if you're fine with your body then leave it, this is just my personal reasonings for not being attracted to excessively hairy men.
It's not unhygienic, and dirty, unless you don't wash... It's more about personal preference, some girls like hair, some do not... It's kinda like the "why don't guys like girls with natural pubic hair.." question.
If it makes you self conscious, you an always offer to get it waxed off, or you can get it all permanently removed via electrolysis..
And you can always ask your partners their personal preference... I had a boyfriend that offered to shave his pubes for me, if that's what I preferred.. (I politely told him not to.. but the offer was still nice)
Maybe personal preference. I have dated guys with lots of body hair before, and they struggled to smell nice. They all said the hair made them sweat and smell more. One had his body waxed and he loved the difference.