Sweetness in a guy is a very subjective appreciation that will vary from girl to girl. I don't have any specific about it but what I can tell you is that this is related to the perception the girl has about a guy. It's probably something not related to what the guy has or does but how he makes the girl feel.
Ever heard about a totally asshloe guy whose girls describe him like "Deep inside he's such a sweet guy"? It makes no sense, doesn't it? False. It does because that "sweetness", the one associated to sexual desire, is just a mental justification, a rationalisation, for a guy women are already attracted to. You can be found sweet for something about you (love children? that's so sweet; call your mom every day? that's so sweet too), but if the girl doesn't feel attraction you will be the "sweet guy friend every women love".
Hope I've made myself clear. Questions?
when my girl friend says sweet it is usually after I have done something that needed to be done or just sharing my thoughts whether negative or positive she cares about the essence of how I do things is what makes it sweet cause it may not be enough or to much but just right in the sweet guy roleXD
What makes a guy sweet?
For me being kind, compassionate, and empathic to a gal with no ulterior motives or hopes of f*cking her.
What things are they referring to that makes him sweet?
Depends on the gal though in my experiences it seems to be non sexual affection, intimacy and attention.
If you ask a girl questions and show a genuine interest in them does that make the guy sweet? Or at least sweet in one way?
Not in my opinion. I regard that as normal behavior though I can see how such an action would be uncommon for guys that it's seen as sweet as it seems guys tend to regard gals as sexual objects not human beings.
Just off the top of my head:
- Romantic comments (not all the time tho)
- Cute, small gifts (like a cute candy, a flower, my boyfriend even gave me a package of sugar that was Valentine's day themed -i loved it!-)
- Original simple ideas (like, picnic over fancy dinner, movie night over clubbing)
- Relation with strangers (this may be weird, but I think it's VERY sweet when my boyfriend plays with a kid on a street, or when he helps an old lady with her bags)
Asking questions doesn't make a guy sweet, makes him look interesting. Which is always nice :)
Opinions vary on "how" or "why" a guy is sweet. I once knew a guy who was very sweet. He was very kind, to everyone and was not afraid to show his affection to his friends, family and me. He was very warm and friendly and easy-going. He didn't have prove his "sweetness" by doing me favors or giving me material things. Some people think that is sweet. But I don't. If a guy is sweet it shows in the way he treats the people around him, that are important. to him. He radiates it naturally and it shows.
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Mmm they're attentive and kind. I think every one is different but these are things that I find make my guy super sweet:
-He'll bring me tea when I'm sick
-He cleans with me and cooks with me (50/50)
-I'll say I wish I could hug him and all of a sudden he pops up at 11 pm just to hug me!
-He always considers my feelings
-He takes care never to cuss in front of me (I didn't ask for it but I like that he does that)
-He's old fashioned gentleman (something I never thought I'd like!)
-He'll come help in my hour of need!
-Very compromising
-very diligent in the relationship. He wants to work hard to make things the best they can be.
-Doesn't need sexual activities to be happy in our relationship
-He remembers things I say even when I don't remember I said it! hahaha
The guy probably did something creative that he put time and effort into it to show that he cares for the girl for her to say that he's the sweetest. Example: maybe he surprised the girl with dinner and desert (that he made) and maybe sent her on a scavenger hunt while he set up or something along those lines.
The real question is being called sweet a good thing by a girl? Does it mean to a girl. Your a real thoughtful person and I really like appreciate you or does it have a more hidden cynical meaning like you d be an easy guy to toy around with?
A guy who is nice and respectful and goes out of his way to show his girl how much she means to him, that's what I call a really sweet guy. :)
When he makes cute comments or compliments you a lot, stands up for you when someone puts you down...that kind of thing.
So many possible answers to this. In general it's just how he treats the girl (sweetly...lol)
I call a guy sweet when he looks shy and his glance is bright and almost innocent . . .:);)
when a guy remembers the tiniest details about me,when he brings me flowers for no reason at all,when he's nice around my friends and family...those kinds of things
Usually if they talk nice to a girl and say all the right things.
Being a Nice Guy and being friend-zoned makes him sweet.
Sincerity and giving...the giving unconditionally giving.
if he's "hot" then he's sweet .girls care only about looks
Generosity and kindness, mostly.
maybe he is covered in sugar?;)
Sugar
When he's covered in honey :3
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