What are signs a girl is unhappy with her bf?

[Anonymous]

Are there signs that a girl is not happy in her relationship? a lot of girls have boyfriends these days, but there are a lot who aren't happy either so what are signs when talking to a girl who has a boyfriend whether or not she's happy? I've been talking to this girl who has a boyfriend but she never mentions him. Of course I probably didn't ask the correct questions so maybe she never felt a need to. lol

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The reason I ask this question is I've been talking to this girl for a while and only recently did she mention having a bf.

[Blossom92]

To put it simply a girl who is unhappy will show these signs:

- She usually don't mention him when you ask

- She is quite distant with her partner

- She shows physical signs that she's fed up with him

- She multiple arguments no matter what it is

- She gets frustrated all the time

- She feels unwanted

- Lack of attention

These are the most of the signs, but there are more. Every female is diffrent and males needs to take this time in dating to get to know there partners better so that the relationship can be better. Not through sex. It will only change the dynamics of the relationship in a way that both parties may not like.

[snowangle]

She'll spend time with him less, she doesn't look happy when she's with him, and she looks happier with other guys (probably flirting). I dated a guy for 10 months in high school... the only reason we were together that long was that I was too chicken to break up lol. But people could most likely tell I wasn't happy with him. I made lots of guy friends and spent a lot of time with them, I didn't talk about my boyfriend much to anyone (unless it was complaining), and I was clearly not myself (read: smiley and giggly) when he was around.

[various]

I think if a girl is unhappy with her boyfriend, she will try to limit her conversations with him, therefore, limiting her communication. She wouldn't want to hang out with her boyfriend as much either since she's no longer interested. She will turn down any form of intimacy and will try to adapt herself to new hobbies or go about her day without giving her boyfriend a second thought. She will also get angry over little things and pick fights when things can be resolved without arguments.

Obviously the smart thing to do in an unhappy relationship is to call it quits and not lead the other person on, as it only gets messier.

[vishna]

She is distant. I know it's nearly impossible without stalking but if you can see how they act together alone then that's a really good indicator.

If she's unresponsive and seems like she's (mentally) somewhere totally different then that's a good sign she really wants to be somewhere different.

If she really has little positive things to say about him and there are facial twinges of anger, disgust, or apprehensiveness..she doesn't want to talk about him.

Really bad signs.

[toulouse]

when her boyfriend who is rational , not passive aggressive or looking for extra drama. senses something is wrong and directly ASKS hr. and she tells him something is bothering her.

or of corse when the rational women who does not play games, tells him directly something is bothering her.

for all the rest who are irrational in relationships, play games, look for drama.. well of course they will have problems. and be unhappy. they are crazy.

[cashba]

well, usually when a girl is unhappy of her relationship, she tends to be distant from her boyfriend, also, she tries to be with other friends and never alone. she also tries to leave early and arrive late, and finds excuses for kissing and making out.

[Mumble]

I'm very happy with my relationship, but it's not always I talk about him when I talk with other people. That is because I already talk a lot about him normally, so I try to do it less :P

But even so, you can look at how she's talking about him, look at her face when she's talking about him. :)

[neon-greyy]

It really depends on the girl and how she handles her emotions and whatnot. Personally, I would probably be super nonchalant and a little detached when I was around him and most likely act indifferent if he is mentioned elsewhere.

[autumn555]

distant, short, makes excuses on not being able to hangout, bitch all the time, doesn't want to cuddle at night, always with friends, never texts when she says she will or knows she can

[Anonymous]

She'll complain the sh*t out of him lol. When I'm not happy with something, I complain till the cows come home. Fortunately, I am very happy with my relationship so I never complain about him :p

[Baybeehjay29]

i just think if the girl was unhappy with her boyfriend she wouldn't be with him but then again there is girls who are blind and put up with a guys crap and stay unhappy

[Anonymous]

she is distant.