My mother once told me all that glitters isn't gold. Sometimes it's a gold plated cheap metal alloy. This is clearly one of those cases.
It is pretty definite that you are out of his league and for that you should be thankful. A lot of guys wouldn't really lower their standards to accept a conceited self centered arrogant female like you.
Perhaps he's taking you on in the hopes that someday you may actually rise up to his level and share the same league instead of always having to walk so many leagues above you.
Granted you may appear to be more attractive physically, based on your vain words, but in the league regarding to character, he is definitely leagues above you.
A bit of friendly advice, try to grow up in terms of you character. Looks often fade over years and if you remain with him there will be a time he may even look better than you. How would you feel if all the sudden he becomes vain and leaves you for someone else, leaving you alone with your diminishing vanity and bad attitude. You might end up finding yourself alone, with no one else wanting to show interest in you and the only one to blame would be the very one you enjoy seeing the most in the mirror.
I'll give you a simple answer without trying to insult you. I know you weren't trying to be shallow, but there's no way to ask this question without coming off to be that way.
Its a problem because you're making it a problem. You say it doesn't bother you, but clearly to some degree it does because you're asking this question. A part of you has doubts, and that is the root of your problem. Your main issue is whether or not you can control yourself whenever someone comes along who you find is more attractive.
I will give you one piece of advice...don't make it seem like its a privilege to date you. In other words, don't make him feel like you have the upper hand and in complete control because you're "more attractive." If you truly want to make it work, you have to stay on equal terms.
You can call me a cynical lowlife if you choose, and that's fine, but you seem incredibly conceited. I would never want to date you, regardless of whether I look like a truck or Channing Tatum. I hope you can eventually appreciate your boyfriend instead of comparing the two of you.
Since everyone is being rude to you, I'll be the one to give you an actual answer to your question.
Honestly, it probably won't matter much on your part as long as you know you won't stray if better looking guys show interest. If he's aware of it, he might have a few minor self esteem issues from it. But as long as he knows you're faithful and you are, then there shouldn't be any problems.
Probably...figuring the majority of the couples I see these days seem to be comprised of a hot guy dating an ugly chick or vice versa (hot chick with some below average Joe). Anyways, more than just looks to a person...but, it does bother me sometimes (maybe I am just jealous) when I see a hot guy with a chick way more ugly than me aka I'm more in his league haha.
No, women age faster especially if you tan more. My sister in law looked good until she had her kid so no I don't think it should bother you. He is probably proud that you are his unless he is the jealous type (then I recommend you can do better).
There are no such thing as leagues, if you like him then you like him, that's all there is to it.
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I won't say looks don't matter because to some degree they do at least at the beginning so that people catch each others eye. But looks aren't everything if there's an attraction after that it's only your business and it doesn't concern anybody else.
The only problem I could see is if you'd think that he's out of your league and you could do better. That would mean you were looking for something better and that would make it unfair towards him. On the other hand if you just feel you're good looking and you like your guy because of the other qualities besides looks that he has then that's completely fine and both of you can be very happy that you found someone who makes you happy.
I consider my girlfriend out of my league, but my friends consider me out of hers. Mostly because there's a lot that goes into things other than just looks. I don't consider myself really all that physically attractive, but I'm either more attractive than I give myself credit for or I make up for it with everything else that goes into attraction. Ever think that possibly your looks don't really matter all that much when talking about a substantial relationship that is based on a lot more than just physicality?
Yeah its horrible.
How can you possible date somebody that has a great personality?
Wouldn't you rather a boring person with good looks?
People might catch onto this...
hmmmm
Lol, there is no way of telling if you are actually hot. But, it's always so much better for the girl to be the best looking in the relationship. That can work out fine. BUT if its the other way around then it's tricky just because other girls will hate on you and make comments about other girls.
This isn't a problem unless you make it one by paying attention to the "attractiveness differential" between you and your bf.
If looks don't matter...then don't think of yourself as "quite a bit better looking". Having that type of mindset to me makes it sound like you are doubting if you can stay faithful to your bf.
Yep, there is definitely a problem. And it's your hubris. You need someone who is just as vain as you. Read your question again to see how stupid and egotistical it sounds.
I can't beleive you would actualy ask that. would you rather be with a guy in your own league of looks and have him treat you like crap?
Yep.
You are so full of yourself you just
'screwed the pooch' as they say/
Oh well.
Time to come back to Earth.
Feet of clay and all that...
I can't see a problem with it.
And the whole "out of league" concept when it comes to look doesn't really matter anyways, as anyone has the oppertunity to be with a "better" looking person.
if your relationship is healthy and your both happy I don't see what the problem is. I know a guy who is relly hot and his wife is frumpy but they work well together.
If he is making you happy, don't question it, enjoy it. Why do you want to make a problem out of something that is not there.
With a question like this, I think he might be out of your league.
Look, from what I am reading right now really ticked me off. That's so shallow of you think, I believe your boyfriend should break up with you.
More like the other way around.
He should say bye bye to you.
You aren't very nice.
Ugly + ugly = pretty, Ugly + Pretty = ugly...you do the math LOL
I do see it as a problem. You are shallow and over think stuff and he has to put up with it.
If you really believe it's a problem then it is.
It doesn't pose any problem at all.
It sure is a problem. He could do better.
Can't tell without a pic
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