Scenario A: She's just trying to let you down gently. This is likely if you've asked her multiple times.
Scenario B: She's trying to see if you're really interested, or just looking for a casual hookup.
Scenario C: She likes/wants to be pursued. Some women, it's just their thing.
Scenario D: She doesn't know enough about you to give you personal info. You never know, she might've had a stalker at some point.
Scenario E: She's not at the right point in her life to open up a relationship, but she'd like to keep you in mind because you seem nice. In essence, she hasn't written you off completely.
It could be one or a combination of any of these, but w/the info provided, it's too difficult to tell.
She probably just doesn't want to give her number to any complete strangers she met at the gym. I know I wouldn't. But since she's smiling and staring at you, it probably means that she's still interested. Get to know her some more and then ask again. If she says "no" again, you'll know for sure that
1) she's either playing REALLY hard to get which in my opinion wouldn't be worth it
or
2) she's simply not interested.
She might be cautious, women do this alot, it is a rough world out there and there are a lot of guys that just want a number or to hook up. While at the gym ask her if you can buy her a coffee after she works our or a smoothie or drink even if they have it at the gym. If she says no thanks, then you should move on, she is not ready to get involved or not interested, either way there is someone who is interested and ready to date.
She might not want to be a approached by anyone at the gym. People have rules about things,a nd that might be hers. I doubt she'll ever give it to you' she's just teasing with this answer.
It doesn't mean she doesn't like you, necessarily; it's just that she doesn't want to fiied approaches while she's working out.
There are informal rules of conduct, it seems, at the gym. I don't understand why, but it's that way for most people there, and I'm there a lot as a personal trainer.
I'd let her come to me the next time but make it easy. If she says even a simple "hi" in passing or some obvious, yet thought to be discreet, eye f***ing, take another crack at it. I'm not saying don't take a girl for her word but when you get reluctant no's like that you've gotta ask again. They so often change into a yes. Just use your good judgement and don't be pushy. I've asked in some situations a 3rd time. It has worked.
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I think she probably likes what she sees and wants to maybe talk a couple more times in the gym to get a better gauge. She may also want to see how much you're willing to put yourself out there. But the fact she looks and smiles I would think there is interest there.
some girls are really hesitant to give random guys my number, so that could be why she said "maybe." it doesn't necessarily mean that she's not interested..or else she would have so "no" or "i'm taken." you should ask her out to coffee or something after your workout..if she realizes that you don't just want to hook up with her she might give you her number.
It could be too soon and she's reluctant to give her number to a stranger. I'd say keep talking to her. If she continually blows you off after a while, then yeah, move on.
She is more than likely trying to keep you guessing and keep you interested. If she honestly didn't want you to have it, she probably would have said no. Ask her again. If she says no. Leave her a lone. 9 out of 10, she is just leading you on.
She's either playing hard to get or figures she doesn't know you well enough to give you her number. From the smiles and stares I'd say she isn't rejecting you.
Maybe = not now but later after she finds out who you are... Just a guess
Either polite rejection or playing hard to get. You're gonna have to keep trying in order to figure out what she's thinking.
She's being stupid and coy. The best solution is to take a Maybe as a No, and just forget about her. If she is the sort who plays games from day zero, you don't want her.
She's not interested. If she liked you believe me you guys would be already talking
Exactly. Don't wonder anymore. If a woman wants you to have her #, you will have it. Especially if you've asked for it.
Give her yours one day. She is probably being cautious I am like that to when meeting new people
there is two possibilties either she might be trying to tease you and play hard to get or she is rejecting you politely. But it seems like its the first one. Its too soon to tell. keep insisting.
if she wanted to reject you she would have said no
she is not interested.
She's just not into you.
Maybe = no
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