I slept with my best friend and now he is acting strange, does he like me?

[Anonymous]

Months ago when me and my best friend were drunk we slept together, and he acted normal afterward and we didn't talk about it just made jokes. Recently we went out and I got with a guy I have known for ages, later he told me he was jealous of me and the guy, does this mean he has feelings for me? All my friends think he likes me from what happened, and he acts differently around me than other girls but I just thought that was because we were best friends.

[ming13]

He may very well like you enough to want a relationship but doesn't know what to do as you 2 have gone beyond the just friend stage by having sex and is finding his feelings have grown, I have many female friends but never had sex with them, not that it hasn't crossed my mind as they really turn me on but they always go out with other guys , and say they don't want to ruin our friendship. I understand many just don't find me attractive in a sexual way and I can live with that but I know if one of them slept with me I would be confused if they then saw someone else. Sometimes people send and receive mixed signals and by sleeping with him he may have thought it would go further but then by getting with another guy he may be wondering what is happening and is confused. Everyone is different, and they react differently.

[sabbott15]

I personly bieng a boy would think that he likes you because of the strange behavour. I can not be sure tho. I would suggest asking him if he likes you in a relaxed time (drunk) so you will get the honest answer and he won't feel bad afterward because he would be able to say "well I was drunk I didn't meen it"

I hope this helped

[gingersnap1995]

after having sex with a guy is obviously going to change your relationship either for the good or the bad. and drunk or not I'm sure he remembers it more or less but if he's jealous he probably withes it was him you were giving your attention to because although he's just your best friend he likly sees or saw it otherwise and may be a little hurt your didn't pursue a relationship.

[chelsielovesyou18]

If he's your best friend, you should just ask him. You can both talk to each other and be completely honest. That way if he says he doesn't have feelings for you in that way, he can't say that he was jealous if you were with another guy because you gave him a chance to be honest and he didn't take it.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, guys are always a little into their friends that are girls, google the ladder effect.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Yup. Of course it means he has feelings for you.

[kysalle]

or he wants to do it again.