Why are all of the good girls taken?

[Anonymous]

Why are all the good girls taken? that are actually kind, sweet, the whole package? it seems all there is to pick from are immature, girls with no morals.

[Darkfairie17]

They're not all taken. I'm one of the good ones, and I am still on the market. My problem is finding a guy who wants the same things I want (ie. marriage and kids someday). Most of the guys I seem to be encountering only want sex. So I am just kinda floating around trying to find decent guys. I know they are out there, but it's hard to find them.

Me thinks the good people are all trying to find each other, but are at the same time busy with hobbies and other things to improve themselves. I hit the gym everyday, that is where I am hiding :P

[Asker]

I want marriage kids, to be deeply in love & them feel the same, and be 100% loyal, not someone who wants me because they think I'm cute or whatever, or because of money, or whatever else. I find today's couples seem to lack true intimacy and is just whatever, all about physical attraction, nothing sensual or spiritual.

[Darkfairie17]

I agree with you. I know a lot of people who have relationships built on the superficial. It's hard to find someone who is genuine now a days. I am a very simple person. I like to stay at home, make food and watch movies (with someone special of course). But a lot of people find that boring. I also like nature walks, again, people find that boring. So I'm finding it hard to find a guy who is into that stuff. It kind of sucks! Well good luck to you, hopefully we both find someone! :)

[Asker]

I like to watch movies at home also, never really been on a nature walk, I live in the city, and I guess I'm weird for liking to watch movies with people and not finding it boring.

[blackwaterhattie]

They aren't all taken. There are good WOMEN out there, too. The thing is that the good ones don't paint themselves up all to be damned and run around all LOOKIT MEEE, LOOKIT MEEE and therefore the good ones tend to get overlooked. Maybe adjust your sights and you'll find what you claim you are looking for,

[Asker]

I have tried, they are either quieter moraless souless people, or to damn hard to get to know, no matter how hard you try,

[blackwaterhattie]

You think you are qualified to make judgements on who has morals, on who has a "soul"? Maybe THAT is your problem- maybe you are too critical. Maybe you are coming across a little holier-than-thou, and maybe that is why you haven't met anyone. Maybe nobody wants to hoist themselves up ye olde flagpole for you to cast your judgement upon, believing they will find themselves lacking in your estimation. Yeah, I think I'd pass on that, too. Sorry.

[Asker]

Im the one passing sweety, and when women cheat, and say incredibly mean things, and laugh at things when someone gets hurt or died, I'm sorry if I find that souless wow get outa here.

[blackwaterhattie]

well, my goodness. I had no idea it was currently a Thing for women to laugh at things when someone gets hurt or died.I also didn't know that only women cheat and say incredibly mean things. You clearly have the high ground, sir, both moral and logical, and I am heartily sorry for having offended thee (mea culpa, mea culpa). I would suggest that your stance is not only purile but incorrect, but that couldn't be right, now could it? I hope you find your perfect mate, lad. Fingers crossed.

[Asker]

Yes I was mistaken, I apoligize, that was meant to a guy who asked a question about making a very poor statement/joke about someone who just died, in front of his loved one's and had the nerve to make a joke about their death, I'm sorry.

[Asker]

I apoligize for earlier if I offended you as well, I was just very frustrated because of the dating game, its just very frustrating in general, finding someone compatible emotionally and physically is really difficult. I'm not really sure about that last comment I sent, I'm referring to you but, I don't know I'm confused these questions/answers seem to become one on this site, I think though, I was referring to those girls who say/do incredibly mean things givin no earthly reason to, I wasn't really referring

[Asker]

To you, because I don't know you, and am not/was not trying to refer to you specificly.

[Asker]

I also reacted poorly to your '' holier-than-thou.'' statement, which was incredibly FALSE, I wasn't trying to seem holier than thou, I just know for myself I find a lot of the things that people do in general regardless of gender, is very disrespectful & quite cruel, and when somebody is laughing/making jokes about someone who died is pretty moraless to me, especially in front of their loved ones.

[blackwaterhattie]

The dating game is just that- a game, only it's not that fun and when you win, often your prize turns out to suck immeasurably. No hard feelings. I truly do wish you luck. But I am telling you, not all the good ones are taken. You'll find yours.

[Asker]

thank you, that's kind of you to say, and there are some truth to your words thank you :)

[VoiceOfReason]

Not all good girls are taken. As long as the evolution of the human race continues, there will always be an availability of good women. Unfortunately, the percentage of good women being available is greatly diminished because good men see, admire and respect the value good women have and thus these are the women of choice for the sensible man.

[Prof_Don]

Because they are decent looking and have relationship qualities...not much else to say.

Ppl naturally want the best.

[snowangle]

Because you're not the only guy who likes mature, sweet girls lol.

[Asker]

nope fairy certain I'm not lol :/

[Theguyoverthere]

They are taken because of what you've mentioned. They have character and want to be in a relationship. You basically answered your own question.

[Asker]

you basically just become the biggest smart ass on this site, no I did not answer my own question, that accounts for the girls, it takes two to stay in a relationship, get blocked little bam bam, god I hate smart A'S