Why do the boys in my class like to tease me?
All the boys in my class likes to tease me a lot. They hid my phone (they even make a schedule of who will hide it everyday!), hiding somewhere to scare me, ask me something that I don't understand just to 'boo' me in the end and much more.
even the boys next class trying to tease me also. T_T
I always laugh it off, but sometimes they just being to mean.
They don't tease other girls like they tease me though, is it means something for them or not?
Do hitting boys when they tease you is cruel? (if they went too mean, I used to hit them. they don't reply though, they tease me even more even. T_T)
and how to stop them teasing me all the time?
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Some gents here are a little sensitive here...she's in high school...boys are generally brats anyways...I'm still one and I love play teasing girls. Do you hang around with the boys alot? If you do..you're just setting yourself to being teased because they can see you as one of the guys. lol
Here's how I see it...these guys are what I dub the brat-types. You're obviously cool enough that they 'tease' you and you're thick skinned enough to handle the nonsense most of the time and laugh it off. lol They're just sizing you up because I'm assuming a bunch of them likes you. Yea..it's weird but guys do that to get a girl's attention and it's a weird way of saying 'I like you' or 'you're cool' without saying it but still keeping it fun and exciting.
But some guys can take it too far...just hit them, pinch them, or slap them...playfully of course! It puts most of them in their place. Keep doing it til they stop...men are like dogs sometimes...keep on punishing til they had enough lol They'll back off eventually...you'll weed out the ones with the bruised egos. OR...just sternly and directly tell them to stop because they took it too far. Some guys have a tendency to take it too far until you set them straight.
What Guys Said 15
No, the truth is they don't like you. Your a push over. Easy to walk over.
Jus' tellin you the truth shuga pie *Old lady who smoked too much voice*
On the other side, they see you as an easy target and a victim.
When someone likes someone physiologically and emotionally there is usually a lot of tension, fear, nervousness, and eye staring, almost no bullying or teasing, its a fact chemicals of attraction cause uncomfortability and tension, similar to fear.
Don't hit them playfully and smile or laugh it out. Your pretending to laugh, you don't really like it. Yell or scream or shout or cuss there mothers out, or slash there tires to show your a crazy mother f*cker, than they'll stop. Don't even look at them, ignore the sh*t out of them if you have to, guys hate that. Than go talk to a guy that doesn't tease you and flirt with him or laugh and smile.
One of three things is going on:
1) You're a real dork and a glutton for punishment and they just like messing with you because they're cruel a-holes.
2) They kind of like you.
3) None of them like you romantically, but you give them such a great reaction that they will keep f**king with you until it seems like you no longer care that much. Then it's on to the next victim.
You'll miss being The Best One in class when/if they stop. Eventually, one will ask you out, get you to go steady and the rest will finally leave you alone and be jealous of him.
If you just want to be buddies, then get some mutineers as confederates to play a trick on one/some of the others = divide & conquer.
They may feel insecure, and try to boost their confidence by putting down people that aren't going to be assertive. There is also the chance that they like you and are just trying to get your attention.
Either way, they seem really immature, and I would try my best not to worry about what they are saying, since they don't seem too bright.
Tell them you don't like being teased and ask if they could stop. Don't laugh about it if you don't think it's funny, you are only misleading them to think you find it amusing. If they don't ease up upon your request then report it to your teacher. But no, don't hit anyone, you may just make matters worse because that will only create resentment towards you.
Sometimes, when guys like someone, they tease as a way of flirting. I don't know if this is that case, but it could be. I agree with Aizou. They could be seeking a reaction out of you. When you respond with an action, they know that the next time they do something, they can expect similar responses. So they just keep on going on going.
There're several ways to make them stop
but there's no way to make it happen for sure.
Bullies often seek the reactions of their victim
so if you stopped giving them that pleasure they
might possibly drop the teasing, but it's not 100% certain of course.
As to why they tease you, you see, the two emotions
"love and hate" lies so close to each other that young
people often confuse the two, making them act awkward
or sometimes even hostile in their confusion of these emotions.
Hows that? ^.~
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