If she slaps me during an argument, that's a deal breaker. Why?
Well slapping me doesn't actually hurt me very much. The hardest of slaps will sting for one minute and on the physical damage plane it's not really not dramatic.
So why breakup?
Well to me a it's a breach of trust. She can't control herself around me in moments of anger. Who knows if in the next argument she'll think it's OK to punch me? After that I just won't be able to trust her to control herself. No matter what she tells me, that's just such a major breach of trust that it's a deal breaker.
If she slaps me out of the blue, that's just plain psycho. And psycho is a deal breaker.
I'm referring to a proper slap across the face kind of slap here. Not a playful slap on the shoulder.
well depends on the situation, like if she slapped me for sexual excitement/arousal, or playful things, they yes, I may slap her, but only if we both consent to it, and that it is solely for sexual excitement. However, I would NEVER HIT A GIRL. It makes me sick that people think that it's alright to hit people. If I have a friend that beats their partner for no reason, I will take it to the police. and If I were being hit by my girlfriend for no reason, I would report her.
People should never hit people, things like cheating, insults, etc, can easily be solved by non-violent means such as talking.
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I got slapped by a girl once. I just let it go the first time. Nobody else saw it except for my best friend. Another friend later told me he heard the girl telling everyone that she beat me up. Apparently, she was still not done with me though. The next day, she went after me again. But, I blocked her attack, grabbed her hand, tripped her, and locked her hand while telling her that if she does not stop this, she is gonna get into trouble with school officials. She never even looked me in the eye after that. I don't think it's fair for a girl to be allowed to hir a guy, but the guy is not allowed to defend himself, and fight back.
kick her out of my life then and there. It doesn't matter what it was for or where it was at. Even If I'm going 80 mph on the interstate and its raining I'm going to pull over to the side of the road and abandon her then and there. I'd likely say, what the f*** do you think you're doing, you don't place your hands on me, get the f*** out we're done. Her but... Me, Shut the f*** up and get out. I have no tolerance for a girl who thinks she can hit men. If she slapped me more then ones I'd at least throw her to the ground extremely hard.
I would never go as far as hitting any woman no matter what the circumstance. I wouldn't do it not because I in any way that a woman should be treated differently than a man, but I've seen how my mom is physically abused by my dad at times and I would rather chop my own arm off with a rusted and blunt knife than ever taking a step to becoming a monster like that.
Just a slap? Couldn't care less, especially if I legitimately messed something up
But what if it's a push? Or a punch? Or worse - if it's also unjustified? Then she's going to have a hard time - I take no sh*t from no-one
Depends on the woman; the value I have for her. This has nothing to do with gender, as a matter of fact but rather it's about an individual. That being said, be it a man or a woman, I hate hitting people.
No. Nor would I simply hit a guy back if he hit me (assuming anger doesn't take over). But, if they cam at me again I would defend myself. I'd attempt to subdue them with as little harm as possible.
I will let a single slap go, without retaliation. Especially if I had done something to annoy her, such as insulted her.
i will never hit a woman. all I will do is block and leave. :-)
If you slapped me for cheating or something I obviously did wrong I wouldn't slap back but for something else like an argument I might.
If a woman thinks it's OK to slap a man she'd better be prepared to land on her ass and be very sore in the morning.
Well, slapping is assault, an act of aggression. Therefore, I'd have the right to use necessary force to end the aggression.
Girls shouldn't be slapping men, men shouldn't be slapping women. Period. If she slapped me, that's grounds of a breakup
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