If you're sore about something someone did to you, do you feel like you have to tell them in order to have closure? Do you feel like it's more important to tell them how you feel or to work through everything yourself without telling them? Sorry if this might be a repeat question, it wouldn't... Show More
If someone hurt you, do you tell them?
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I always want to but I don't. I want to come across as the strong woman that I am so telling someone that they hurt me is really hard for me.
However, telling someone they hurt you should never be used in any kind of manipulative way, such as trying to make a person feel bad. There should never be anger. Try to wait to express your hurt feelings until you have some distance. It's much more effective.