I had my third date the other night and met the guys mum and partner, he also sent me home in his jumper the next morning. I'm assuming this is good, I Haven't heard from him yet so I guess he's playing it cool.
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I think self-consciousness makes it sorta bad. We feel like we'll be perceived in an unfavorable way if we do certain things so we hold off, we give mixed signals, we delay phone calls. Either we're afraid we're coming off too strong or too weak. There's so much confusion in the mix that neither side knows the intention of the other. Even when you state it directly most of the time we're in disbelief because of how we want to perceive things. It's just a big mess.1