What Girls Said 1
are you both 9 years old? that is so strange. I think both of you are at fault.just talk to each other like adults. obviously there's some tension here in a good way...u both have feelings for each other, so why not cut the crap and get to the good parts? ask her out on a date. in general though, girls are defensive like that when they like a guy but he's not reciprocating. so you need to stop getting mad at her at little things and play along or just be funny about it, then get to the serious part and show you like her too and wanna go out...its called flirting.
What Guys Said 1
I know the type.. she's a little clingey, craves your attention, but has a really short temper too. She calls you annoying flirtingly, probably (well it's clear she doesn't mean it seriously, as she says it's not the worst thing). She wants your attention, either give it to her if you're interested, or don't and stop talking to her.