Warning signs: when a married man wants to have an affair.

[Anonymous]

This is not to be taken as if I'm looking to see if this man wants me.

I believe he is interested in me and we work together.

Yes, I do have feelings for him but will NOT act on them. 100 percent wrong. I got that.

He has not said anything sexual or made an advance like that but I've seen quite a few signs that he is interested. I just want to make sure I'm not dealing with something that's bigger than what I think. Because I'd rather avoid getting it to the point of a blow up.

So what are some warning signs that he may want to pursue me?

[InquisitiveMale]

not a married man so I'm just throwing sh*t out there...

He'll initiate allot of physical contact. He might try and isolate you from your surroundings, always trying to pull your interactions away from the eyes and ears of others. He'll likely invite you on dates with easy deniability it's even a date; just friends getting together. He'll feel the need to reinforce the fact that he's in a dissatisfying relationship racing towards it's finish line.

[Asker]

Thanks. He has initiated physical contact, likes to get in my bubble alot. Whenever we talk we're usually away from anyone. And he basically told me the other day he was looking at my chest. We'll be attending the same concert..not together..that's something I can't avoid.

[Theguyoverthere]

Honestly, just go with the vibes you pickup on and overtime if he wants to have an affair, it will become way more obvious. Lots of married men have affairs and it is quite sickening.

[Anonymous]

if he tlaks to you a lot and smiles or touches you more thna he needs to

[Asker]

He does talk to me often and stares anytime we are apart.

[Anonymous]

he will try to spend time with you and be totally flirty