it doesn't really make sense usually emotionally scared people are fearful to commit quickly again and push people away at the start who like them as a fear to get attatched.
from what I see your problem is you literally you just hand your heart over to a guy straight away. because maybe because of rejection in your past you feel a need to feel loved so any guy that comes along you want it to work and replace a former lover. and as you said you desperately want to be with someone because it feels lonely to be single. where there is your problem right there. you put up with sh*t because of a need to have someone. you need to be OK to be by yourself because then you won't put up with someone not treating you 100 percent perfectly. you will walk away before anyone has chance to hurt you. you need to build up confidence to be alone. then you will have more confidence to demand you are treated better.
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Well, they weren't putting you down..as you say, you've been hurt by guys. this makes you have self esteem issues, so you crave acceptance at almost any price, especially by guys.
You need help. Start with close friends and family, but a professional counselor could really help you. You could discuss your past experiences and why you accept unacceptable treatment from guys. That behavior is probably rooted in your childhood, and hard to discuss with people who can't be obective, and/or aren't trained in what to look for!
Good luck..TAKE ACTION! You don't have to stay living like this!
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Things in the past have left you emotionally damaged. abuse, neglect, teasing ect...
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