What does it mean when a girl says she cares about you alot?

I told her how I feel about her... that I care about her a lot.

She said she cares about me too... more than she should.

She told me she has strong feelings for me.

What does this mean? Why did she say "More than she should"?


Most Helpful Girl

  • When women say "more than I should" it's a way of saying "I really like you but I've been hurt several times in the past and I'm too afraid that I'll end up hurt once more." It doesn't mean that she doesn't want to like you, but she is trying to be cautious about how deep she falls because she's afraid of getting hurt. So if you truly care about her "a lot" then make sure to acknowledge her fear and tell her that you don't want to hurt her but that you won't jump into something serious too soon if she isn't ready. Hope I helped!

    Best of luck! (:

    • Ya... I get that from her. I think she's afraid for whatever reason.

      I told her I am lost at the moment with what is happening between us and she feels the same. When she got jealous and went ape sh*t over my "relationship" with her female friend. She told me she never reacted in such a way before and just upset that I'm close to her friend.

      When she messages me and I don't respond, she gets very worried and upset.

      I do care about her... she means the World to me. :((

    • She's just jealous. That's a good sign. If a female is jealous that means she cares about you. So don't take it the wrong way! :D Just continue to communicate with her and see where things go from here! (:

What Girls Said 8

  • "More than she should" means she really likes you, a lot but is afraid you will hurt her. So she is trying to keep her emotions in check and not fall too deep. She's probably been hurt before and is wary that this situation will be any different.

    If you do truly like her and want to be with her, show her that you can be trusted. Appreciate her and treat her right.

    • She insisted that I was having some sort of "relationship" with her friend. I told her we're just friends but she did not believe me. Well I did lie to her about my closeness with her friend and later on she found out that we are much closer. When it did, she told me to go to her if I like her so much and I should leave her alone.

  • Probably she has feelings for you, but she is afraid of showing them off. We girls do not strongly care for so many guys, only the ones that we have feelings for.

    • She does... she told me she has strong feelings for me.

      Apparently, she has feelings for a few other guys. I asked if her feelings for me is the same as with those other guys. She said no, her feelings for those guys are not the same. They are more along the lines of “close friends” she enjoys hanging out with and some are like brothers to her.

  • Right now isn't a time for her to have a relationship or she scared she will get hurt again. She foeant want to be the person who likes the other person more is what she is saying. She is scared is all. You need to persue her but make her feel comfortable ans feel like she isn't gonna get hurt

    • I get that vibe from her... that she's scared to have deeper feelings for me.

      She already told me that she likes many things about me... one time I told her, I am lost and don't know what to do with her. She said to me, "Take care of me." But I did not know what she meant by that.

    • She means that be there support her and hinestly don't let her go.

  • She has feelings for you plain and simple.

  • It means she cares about you alot

  • She really means it

  • Bf or a real distaste for something you do (things like drugs/drinking/smoking/ your a friends crush or ex or you're her best friend and she doesn't want to jeopardize that) could be the only reasons I can think of that she would say " more than she should". Or she could just be emphasizing a point that she really likes you. Hard to be certain.


What Guys Said 7

  • Do you know if she recently got out of a relationship?

  • More than she should probably refers to a personal barrier. Don't worry about that. Sounds like mutual greatness! Enjoy it.

  • She Wants the D

  • She has feelings for u.Try to ask her out to find out if she is ready for a relationship!She may want one or maybe she doesn't.None can tell you for sure,except her!

    P.S My ex was saying the same thing,maybe she is playing mind games!

    Wish you best of luck :)

  • She wants to have sex with you

  • Falling for you, outright simple.

  • If a girl says she cares about you a lot, it probably means that she cares about you a lot.